Do you think guys under 25 are immature and not ready to commit? (Page 2)
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Yes, I do. It obviously depends on his personality type but I think it's very common and as they say men usually mature slower than women there's nothing wrong with that though but it can make dating hard if you wanna date someone your age and you're younger than 25. I think many men under 25 struggle to commit to one person and even those who can commit they may not be the best partner because they're immature and can't put in all the necessary effort. I'm glad I turn 24 this year. I think that most men who are ready to commit under 25 gets taken very fast, like I know some guys who met their current partner when they were 15-16 years old and they're still together.
I'm 18 and most of the women I've talked to without telling them my age think I'm older. Some of us are mature and ready for commitment, but then there are the others that act like children and give us young adult men the bad stigma. I get mad at people who say "Aww you're just a kid" or "you're soo young" yes I get it my age is but my mental state and way of thinking is more mature than most men older than me.
As far as maturity, that just depends on the specific person and can go both ways. But it can also be "smart" vs "immature". You should wait until 25 before thinking about marriage and children. Experts will tell you this and I agree 100%. You're still mapping out your life in these years with school, career etc. Marriage and children should come after that, and by 25, most people are pretty set as far as how things are going to go with their lives and are more ready to settle down. So much can and does change between 18-24
Well it depends on the guy and the maturity level , and what they really want because if they're looking for a long-term relationship they're going to go for a older woman if they're looking for a short-term they're going to go for somebody younger that
likes to party no responsibilities and have fun I say this as because I'm with somebody that's younger than me and he stood up at 21 when he didn't have to be a father and chose to be a father so it's either way it depends on the guy his responsibility and what they're ready for the next level of maturity. the question that should be asked straightforward is what do you see your future being like in 2 to 3 years if they say nothing party and I don't know then it's time to find somebody else to see if there ready for that question to be answered for you
Quite the opposite. I’ve met really mature 19-22 year olds who were ready to commit. Their flaw however was that they were quite indecisive and look at you as more of a mother figure who guides them on what to do rather than a girlfriend who can walk the path with them
this mf SPITTIN as usual
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It's up to that person how they look at other person because we often tend to like people of same mentality. So mature will find out mature and immature will go out with immature. And from 23 to 28 guys are like in a journey for struggle as financial and job stability. So there are some who won't commit because they know their place.
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I can ask the exact same question about girls and women of pretty much all ages. Do you want to hear it?
I see women at 25 years still holding very dear to social media as if that matters more than reality. I thought that's for girls in middle school.
Yes, it's TRUE most PEOPLE are not fully matured until after 25. That's bc our brains are still developing. Since women tend to mature a bit faster than men, that age is a bit lower, but not much.
https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=141164708
I think "commitment" is closely linked to responsibility. And the first responsibility a man need is to have a career that pays for everything he needs, including a house and car, with cash in the bank.
And guys below 25 usually don't have those.
Hence while they may desire more from a relationship, their ability doesn't permit. So they just go for sex, until perhaps after 25, that they can eventually "settle down".
saw something like that in a book once but it was not even a good read, though i think fiction is the only way they can do anything responsible lol. if you want reality read romeo and juliet , that how most end up because they can't deal with real life things.
Some women want guys to commit. Other guys tell a woman they want to commit and she runs away. You can't win. Either no one knows what they want or everyone is just talking to the wrong people.
I mean I'm 24 and been with someone for 5 years so I honestly think that it just depends on the person
It amazes me how women like to shame men supposedly because they are not ready to commit (in other words destroy their lives for women) and at the same time we are surrounded by irresponsible women who in their 40's still behave like 15 year olds and then expect us to be the clean up guy and prove ourselves like none of the two million dicks they fucked ever bothered to prove themselves. Women are the definition of double standards and hypocrisy.
You can't really paint everyone with the same brush.
However, with that being said. I'm 27 and I would not date anyone younger than me. They would have to be 27
i was 23 when i thought i found the woman of my dreams... i was ready to sacrifice everything including going to a country i knew almost nothing about, didn't know the language, was turning my back on my friends and family just for her to be happy. True most men are immature at that time though
Wise men (and women with assets) will never be ready to commit to marriage under current laws.
As for the rest... I'm 24, own two large houses outright and a business that was generating serious income until the Covid-19 pandemic, and it is still running in the black, albeit just barely.
I'm 19, but I've always wanted commitment. Sure, when I'm single I tend to mingle more casually, but when I like someone, i want it to be for commitment, not for short term fun.
Most, probably. At that age, very few of us are even aware of who we are or what kind of life we want to have, let alone who we would be happy to spend the rest of our lives with. I don't think that's something unique to guys, either.
The majority of men aren't ready for a serious relationship (something with marriage potential) until their late 20s/early 30s these days, so, I voted B. Exceptions exist, but the are exceptions: relatively rare.
As a guy who was once 25 and under, I look back knowing that I was definitely not mature enough, especially for marriage.