Are 21 year old guys serios?

[Anonymous]

I just went to a recent break up with a guy i have been over a year with. I've been really sad but I'm better now. It's been 3 months now since the break up and a really cute guy added me a month ago on insta. He the messaged me about three weeks ago. Since then we have been talking every day quite a lot. No one suggested that we meet, we have been just talking. The thing is i don't want the same situation once again where someone leaves me just for having fung in the club because they found out they don't want a relationship. I am a bit unsure if he wants something serious or just fun because he is like me just 21. Can u guys help?

[raulroy91]

It's difficult to be a good judge of character at 21 and then.. I am not sure if even you know what your looking for in a guy.. your perspective of life might change as get older.. I was in love at 21 and the relationship went for nearly 5 years.. and now she is married to someone else.. it happened because we realised we wanted different things in life.. but we still talk, always stay in touch and are actually better friends now.. so my advice to you would be just focus on what you want for the time being.. and about the guy.. give it some more time before you decide to meet him and a maybe a little more before you decide to commit or not. Have a good day.

[boggboss]

The age is irrelavent here as it's just depends on the guy my brother is 21 and completly gave up clubbing to be with his current girl and lives her whilst I know some guys that don't want to settle down at 30

[thatguy1559]

Most of us like the idea of being serious at 21 but we don't do it. At 27 I just started considered trying to do it settle down but I think it will be another 5 before I get serious

[wulibuli]

You are just 21 why do you think you have to be serious?

[Gatman34]

It’s Instagram so no

[Prime_Sol]

Is anyone serios?

[Nahid1707]

You should move on

[visitthemexico14]

how old are you?