Would you still be able to love someone after they’ve been unfaithful? (Page 2)
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Nope.
There's no reason to. Cheaters never change, and heck, even if they did I have self-respect enough not to bother "trying again".
True because they just PRETEND TO CHANGE. There must be intense temptations going inside that cheater and that's why they cheated. That's black and white for me. There are no GREYS in cheating because Grey is a mixture of black n white so i view grey as blurry, secretive, deceptive and manipulative.
Only weak people will love the same person who threw their hearts and relationship out of the window. EVERY person with self respect would laugh at this question.
yes. Loving someone and whether it's the best idea to continue loving them, despite how they treat you, are independent of each other for most people. Myself included.
My boyfriend kissed another girl while being drunk.. he was always telling me "alcohol is not an excuse to be unfaithful" and really thought he would never be unfaithful. I guess you never know.. (in the end I undestand why he did that there was some reasons I was like okay but it's not making it more acceptable) it was like 2 months ago and now we are still together (it's been 2 years) again sorry for my English I speak french hahaha
Being able to love them is completely different from having to stay with them. If you don't love the person, then it wouldn't really be that bad. Love makes us vulnerable. Absent that, it's just another person.
Depends on why she was unfaithful, if it was a choice we are over. If she lost control of herself and is genuinely sorry for it we have a basis to see if we can make things work.
Depends. When she cheated, was it just sex, or was it sex and love? I'm in a long term relationship, I wouldn't throw everything away if she would have cheated just once.
It’s hard to be able to love someone I have no trust in anymore. If someone is unfaithful to me then in my eyes the relationship is over.
I do know why you would waste your love on someone who hurt you so deeply? forgive them , forget them and go on with your life ! thanks
Yes I would still love and have feelings for that person, but the relationship is gone. I won’t be able to trust them again especially if they intentionally lie about it after I’ve given them a chance to admit it.
No, I tried that before and it hurts too much. Being unfaithful is an immediate deal breaker.
I would but not talk to her. She is broken my hurt by doing unfair won't give her a chance again to do it.
So you mean she cheated? I wouldn't call that a test.
I'd call that a one way ticket to getting the hell out. Of course I won't love her anymore if she cheated.
Love? Yes! Trust? No!
The basic fact is that women betray weak men.
Taking a woman back after infidelity pretty much defines a guy as weak. So only forgive a girl if you want further betrayal. It will happen.
There was a time when it would have been possible. My viewpoints having matured a little more though, no.
i would love someone even if they cheat..
only i wouldn't be in a relationship with that person.. cuz that would be stupid.
i might forgive, but won't be together again..
May be I have problem letting go off people so I don't get close in the first place I get attached too soon but if they are smart they should just leave
Love... yes.
Forgive... yes
Trust... no.
Respect... no.
Like... no.
Stay with... no.
Why would I love someone who is willing to throw away our relationship for momentary gratification?
I would end it, leave and move on.
They would be dead to me.