How to break it off with my booty call?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I been having sex with a guy for 5 months (I’ve known him for like 15 years but we never hung out) now. I’m starting to fall for him but I don’t think he wants a relationship. I’m not sure if I want to tell him over text the next time he hits me up or see him one more time and leave him with a letter I wrote telling him how I feel. I have to end it now before I end up broken hearted which I can’t take anymore of. I’ve never been just a booty call before and I don’t like the feeling of it. He is very sweet to me and I hate ending it but my heart has been broke enough from long term relationships. I’m not good at asking people how they feel.

[swim15]

In order for a relationship to even have a chance of success, you have to be a little vulnerable. The question you need to ask your self, would l want to have kids like him one day. If the answer is yes. Then l would highly encourage you to take the chance and make yourself vulnerable to him and ask. If the answer is no, then enjoy your booty call and leave at that.

[Massageman]

There is really no way to avoid facing rejection- for someone, somehow- in this situation.

[Massageman]

Thanks for the MHO.

[earlmae]

Was in the same situation. developed feeling and told him I was tired of being his booty call. But he still text me. not sure why.

[Anonymous]

You tell him you have feelings and he will leave on his own.
You have done what most females do in this situation which very seldom happens for guys.
We don’t buy the cow if the milk is free.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should ask him how he feels about a relationship before breaking it off , he might surprise you, you’ve known him quite awhile

[Asker]

For some reason I don’t like talking to people about that kind of stuff I have a big fear of rejection

[Opinion Owner]

Well he going to wonder what happened when you tell him you can’t see him anymore and think he did something wrong instead of the real reason, guys like women to be direct no matter what

[Sammie97]

send him a text ending it

[swim15]

That would totally destroy a guy. At least have the dignity to call and explain that you want to break up. Please don't break up through a text.