My husband cheated on me and I don’t feel anything. What does this mean?

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This hasn’t been a one time thing. The first few times I was extremely upset and felt all the emotions. But this last time I have felt nothing. I have no anger, no sadness, I literally don’t feel anything. I don’t even think I was surprised.

If I could feel anything it would be empty. Irritated with myself.

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iambae Follow
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Forgive and forget

To the married I give this charge (not I, but the Lord): the wife should not separate from her husband (but if she does, she should remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and the husband should not divorce his wife.

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This means that deep down in your heart you always knew and had a feeling that he had done this a while back. Now that he actually admitted that, you don't feel shocked. He cheated on your once before. So spiritually your not married anymore, so the ties are cut because of what he did. I'm sorry, but you need to divorce this guy, he is showing that he is not going to stop.

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Because you’ve already processed the fact that he cheated on you and subconsciously accepted the fact that he’s a cheater and he’ll always be a cheater.

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- Opinion Owner
  
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  you don’t respect yourself enough to leave him
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  You’re in a rut.. a dead end. It’s over before it’s over
  
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Unit1 Follow
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You sound like me - feeling nothing. Numbness. Likely you are used to the misery or depression, so that it doesn't impact you anymore. It's like growing a hard skin at the cost of your happiness.

you may have seen it coming anyway.
sounds familiar to you?

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scarlett774 Follow
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Drain his bank account and dip. Lol but seriously you should break up with him, pack you shit, and leave, you don’t deserve to be cheated on.

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winterfox10 Follow
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How long has it been since you found out? If you just found out then it could be shock, but if you've known for a while then you might just not give a shit about the marriage anymore.

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Not_Average Follow
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Think it’s time to consider divorce. Sounds like you don’t really love him at all anymore. For good reasons.

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integrale77 Follow
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Sounds like a sign things are over and waiting for you to decide to move on.

You don't feel anything now as you don't see him as any more than a friend or a casual acquaintance

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Wise4myage Follow
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Why on earth are you still married to this man? Either file for divorce or start sleeping with other men yourself.

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Jersey2 Follow
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Do you still love him? Still want to be with him? Those are key questions.

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ItsTheNephilim Follow
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It means that you have stopped feeling about him that you would care about the fact he cheats on you and it's time to move on from him now.

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WhiteGlaze Follow
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You're the odd one whos actually fine with it. Maybe a change in the relationship is in order. Become and open marriage type thing I don't know there's options.

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Anonymous
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Sounds like you will have a great marriage if you can live with your husbands infidelity. Not a lot of women can deal with what your going through, most go for divorces and tyr to take half his stuff.

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pink_and_inlove Follow
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You maybe expected this all along/ were mentally prepared or that you don’t love him

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asshole_ Follow
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I'm sorry for his ass

men can really be such assholes sometimes

can't they

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  You took him back, after the first couple times?
  
  That's where you're the idiot
  
  a cheater, will always cheat
  
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- Asker
  
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  You’re not wrong about that. One time was on my bachelorette party so it seemed to close to the wedding to call and tell everyone “hey just kidding we aren’t doing this shindig” I don’t think I’ve really get much after that. I don’t know. I can’t tell my friends or family so I thought talking on here might help...
  
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- asshole_
  
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  i would think the people you would want to tell the most would be them
  
  not random people
  
  also, yes, he cheated
  
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Gedaria Follow
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I know it bad to say, but that could be why he cheated...

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Nephilim000 Follow
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I think it means you are over him

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Poppykate Follow
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Maybe, deep down you knew something was up!

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In_Trance Follow
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it means you should go your own ways

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TeddyGotT Follow
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You're over him and ready to move on

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AmeerX Follow
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Are you blank? What really happened?

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