I certainly do not think it is overreacting to be concerned. I mean it is not fair to say he can't have a female friend, but when you meet on an online game and its some random person he hasn't known long, it is questionable. I mean maybe you share a social media account but all of them and you give out the number is a little suspect. It is fair to say that it could be completely innocent but if that's the case he should openly let you see conversations they have on social media or texts... how long the calls are... if he has nothing to hide this won't be an issue. It definitely is fair for you to question it though not knowing his intent or the intent of the random girl for that matter.
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I don't think you're overreacting at all. Why share all that personal info with another girl, just because they're playing an online game? Does he do that with guys? I would say probably not.
It’s not wrong to be friends with a female but it’s wrong to befriend a girl with romantic intentions if you are already in a relationship - whether he had romantic intentions or not and whether he should or shouldn’t when you don’t want that - that is between you and him - I think you and your partner set the ground rules in the relationship and not some external standard
He's completely wrong the only reason why he would do that is to cheat or do things behind your back. He cross the line when he added her to his social media and exchange personal information.
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Online games have paved way for relationships. If it's not just restricted to the game. you have all rights to be upset.
Is she a "random girl" or is it someone he's come to be a friend with over time playing together? Men and women can be completely platonic friends. Does he have male gaming friends too?
If I had a girlfriend I sure wouldn't be sharing my phone number and social media with another girl that just doesn't sound too good, I know you don't want sound overreacting but two wrongs don't make a right?
Sounds a little overreacting to me it's just a game maybe she's a good gamer. I mean is playing a game with someone the same as having sex with them? No I don't think so.
and that my friends is a control bitch. if she sees her man having fun she gets mad. Women always have a complete meltdown when they see men being happy without them.
thats whack... there's no real good reason for getting a phone number from another gender when in a relationship.
Depends on the accumulated occasions he's demonstrated how he handles himself. If there's a reason than no ifbhe hsnt given you a reason than maybe a little. Love causes jealousy.
He just add her cause they play same game. If you don't trust then forget the relationship
Over reacting... unless you find evidence he and she are more that game players
yeah... Overreaction for sure. smh
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