It's been 7 years & my boyfriend still hasn't proposed? What do y'all think? (Page 2)

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You guys, I feel sad. It's been 7 years, no proposal. He disappeared for 2 years yet randomly came back & he continues to act like I'm his wife, having me do everything wifey like for him but without the ring. Sure, he's great, were in love, happy, he gives me money & buys me stuff but I want a marriage commitment. Is that asking too much? He's almost 50! I'd think he would wanna settle down by now... What do y'all think?

Ifriqyan · Answer

It doesn't look like he's ever gonna do it.
Toss him out and get you a younger man and start a family with him before it becomes too hard to have a child.
Stop giving love, time and emotions to men who aren't willing to marry you/

Kiss_Me · Answer

Its time to require some action on his part. You have been VERY patient. IF is not ready for marriage by now, time to find a new guy.

SweetDisaster · Answer

Talk to him have a serious and respectful conversation. Communication and trust is the key to a beautiful relationship. But dawn 7 years Holly molly ( ･ิД･ิ) ノ

PetrovaFire92 · Answer

If you wanted to marry you you would have did it by now...🙄... Maybe he feel like he's too old to get married.. now.🤷 if he's almost 50 years old. Maybe he doesn't want kids.

DizzyDesii · Answer

No way i’d stay that long. If he doesn't propose by or before year 3, its prob never happening. Even i would hope he proposed by or before year 2

LemiaOfTheCodes · Answer

If your that desprate to get married why dont you quit belly aching and propose yourself.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

He disappeared for 2 years and you took him back? Do you not think he hooked up with others whilstbhe was away? You ok with that?

sheikalana · Answer

Maybe he's not interested in getting married and is happy with how things are between the both of you.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

If he ain't ready to settle down by now, he ain't ever going to be.

DWornock · Answer

I think he realizes that for most men, marriage is a very bad deal and will remain that way as long as the laws and family courts greatly favor women at the expense of men.

IlluminatiExposed0 · Answer

Why would he settle down? He's getting everything he wants without making any commitment whatsoever. So how about what you want? Just a ring? Or to have kids and a partner who's going to be there when you get old?

Paul09 · Answer

Wow, and I thought I was confused. You are either super confused. Or looking for a sugar daddy? This is not a actual realationship, if that's what you want. And in 10 years you'll be dating a senior lol. In the end, he is using you for sex.

kingofthellamas · Answer

I think it's worth remembering that marriage is a big risk factor for most men. Just legally it's not a wise step to make. I would cut him some slack.

Poppykate · Answer

You are 29. Find someone willing to commit, because this one won’t... or just learn to live with it.

Stevepro68 · Answer

You need to talk to him about it Obviously its important to you and no so much to him.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I think that's an open conversation you need to have with him.

Juxtapose · Answer

Marriage is a misandrist institution designed to transfer wealth from men to women. He would have to be a fool to get married.

navyrobin · Answer

You say he’s great but you also said he disappeared for 2 years in the same sentence. I don’t think this is something a “great” person would do.

WorkFFS · Answer

How about ask him instead of random retards on the internet

caligirl03 · Answer

Don't ever act like a wifey when you're only a girlfriend, baby girl.

treselle · Answer

He randomly left you for TWO YEARS? And you’re still pretending to be his wife by doing things for him? Girl you are not so smart

A_Bell · Answer

You're not his girlfriend, he is your tennant. Evict him and move on.

Torari · Answer

Marriage is a scam. You can live without being married. And at considerably lesser risk to your financial wellbeing. No man should ever marry. It's too dangerous.

yucel_eden · Answer

He will throw you away when your 35, wrinkly and too old for he’s taste and immature head. He has plans to dump you in a few years time is the answer

dandiecandie · Answer

Hahahhaha he's almost 50. Girl you propose to him. See what he does hhahahha

Unit1 · Answer

You love his money and want more than that. He's not gonna risk getting divorce raped.

Wise4myage · Answer

I don't see that happening, so if marriage is what you want, then you need to move on from this man. You're basically just a play thing to him.

guitarnovice · Answer

Has he been married to someone else before? I think that's an important piece of info missing from the equation.

Twalli · Answer

Did you ever mention that you saw yourself married in the future? Did he? You need to see if you have the same overall romantic goals.

Pete671 · Answer

Maybe he's concerned the marriage will fail and he'll lose his property?,,,

John_Doesnt · Answer

Weddings are expensive and only necessary for tax purposes.

_Just_A_girl_ · Answer

I don't know why he's wasting time , heart breaking pray on it.

PrettyRegular · Answer

You should talk about it. Maybe he doesn't even know you want to get married.

dragoblack · Answer

I think bigger question is does love really need to be signified by a ring and bringing law/government into your relationship?

Joe1956 · Answer

why get married if you're going to do "everything wifey like" for him? inconsiderate jerk... playing you

Anonymous · Answer

Have you tried talking to him about it?  My partner and I are both on a similar page about this stuff, but that's because we discussed it.

msc545 · Answer

If you push him for this, he may leave you. Be happy with what you have, which is a LOT.

Dave31989 · Answer

You're not getting any younger... so, you need to start thinking about if you should find other men

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? There is a reason this is a saying.

ProfessionalMusician · Answer

He is not a husband isn't married and should not treat her like she is

Anonymous · Answer

Wait, he "disappeared for 2 years yet randomly came back"? How does that work?

Anonymous · Answer

He is probably never gonna get married if he hasn't by now. Also he's probably too old for you.

Anonymous · Answer

2 years? Your his Backup Chick. And no, he's not going to commit to you.

MrTwix · Answer

Possible he hasn't given it much thought and the little he did made him nervous.

whatdoyouwantt · Answer

You should have a talk with him

ColHathi · Answer

Do you need a marriage to settle down?

OurManFlint · Answer

Year 8 might be your year.

Tea-Spaghetti · Answer

Wow sounds like a douchebag seriously

Browneye57 · Answer

I think you're a complete fool.

Bidensucks2020 · Answer

I doubt if he is ever going to ask

nawtee_me · Answer

You may have to propose to him... ;)

michael1469 · Answer

Smart guy not to get married.

Iamcoming · Answer

He wait oldest periots 😂

Be4rdy · Answer

Get a grip will you ffs

CubanLove · Answer

Leave.

mollyyyy37474 · Answer

Girl runnnn

jimmy2 · Answer

Time to move on

CreamySeed · Answer

50? Are you mad?

Fuentes · Answer

He's a smart man

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