Why guys dont want their girls to wear revealing cloths but yet looks and seem to be interested in girls who wear them more? Some even left for those?

[Luna1998]

I do own some revealing cloths but i wear them occasionally, or only when im alone. But from what learned from many friends and as an Love adviser for them (being single got me to be able to give reasonable advices, i guess lol) Most of the fights i saw was about guys looking at other girls boobs or what so. Yet when their girls wear those, another fight started lol. As a girl, i personally think its cute to be protective and prossesive over someone you like, but i just dont understand why then look at others? aren't we enough? Or are they changes you want us to fix?

[Kaazsz]

In my experience the type of guy who limits his girlfriends clothing is also the type of guy who can get a lot of girls. And guys who can get a lot of girls know women inside and out. And they know to tell their girl to dress conservatively cuz he knows women are just as much as promiscuous sex crazed maniacs as men are.


And you can’t lie to him. Because you know he knows. Unlike most men who you say it’s not true to. You know he knows you’re a slut, that’s why you’re with him. Women love when a man knows what’s up. They lie and tell the rest of the blue pill beta boys it’s not true, but any dude who gets girls knows the truth and you can’t hide that shit from them.


That’s why they want to control your clothing.


Of course, not all women are willing to cheat at the drop of a hat. It’s that knowledge of the truth of women that makes the guy paranoid and insecure, and act crazy enough to control what you wear. Which in and of itself will drive her away and cause her to cheat because being in a relationship with an insecure person sucks.

[iFarted]

lol I never understood that either. It's like a guy see's the girl in sexy attire then dates her and wants her to stop wearing the very same clothes that he initially found her attractive in.
I think they're insecure so they don't want other guys to look at their ladies.
It's already expected that guys will check out and sometimes gawk at the girl I'm dating. I found her attractive so why would others?
There is a time and place for sexiness though and sometimes it's best not to show off cleavage lol.

[iFarted]

why wouldn't others*

[Hangry22]

That's what most possessive guys and potential cheaters do because they know exactly what goes on in a guy's mind. This is just like how such guys can hang out with his female friends while his girlfriend is not allowed to have guy friends because he doesn't want her to do what he does with his "friends". So he doesn't want guys to thirst over his girlfriend like he does with other girls

[Luna1998]

Well thats unfair, no one should ever cheat

[Hangry22]

Ya but it's fairly common nowadays

[babysteph]

My Dom is one of those guys who’s really comfortable in our relationship and knows I’m not going anywhere. For that reason, he’s fine with me wearing whatever I want. Sometimes he even enjoys showing me off because he knows he’s the only one that gets to play with me. I blame it on insecurity honestly. Not all guys are like that. You deserve someone who fits your needs better.

[Red_Arrow]

I do not see anything wrong with looking. Lots of guys can enjoy the view of a gal in sexy clothes without any desire to be unfaithful. And the woman in a relationship with me certainly would enjoy feeling desired. So she can wear somewhat revealing clothes and enjoy the looks without bothering me. We went to nude beaches and resorts a lot and I was not bothered by any guys liking her looks. In fact, I was a bit proud to be the one with the beautiful woman.

[Luna1998]

I see, thats understandable

[tzdc21]

The reason why guys have a problem is because they don't see you as that type of girl. You see, when a girl wears provocative clothing or revealing clothing, guys know that this girl is not worth committing to, and belong in the sex only category. But the girlfriend is another story because she is the girl who has proven that she is worth being in a relationship with. So when she does the same stuff that the other girls do, the ones he has labeled as sex only, he's gonna have a problem with that because in our minds, you're supposed to be the type of girl that doesn't do that.

[Junior42]

Guys want you to wear revealing clothing for us now some guys get jealous those guys are called bitches cuz that doesn't make any sense why do they get angry at you if that's what they want you to wear they get jealous of other guy staring and they only want to look at you in that light or in that way and they left you for that girl that was wearing less clothes because he didn't really about you that much apparently and he wanted to stare at other women's boobs but didn't want to have his girlfriend wear revealing clothing and have other guys stare at her boobs and yes you are enough but don't forget we're men we're creatures we are going to look at other stuff doesn't mean we're not loyal just human nature we have eyes so do you

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

DAMN girl you're HOT
see that's the reason guys don't want their girlfriends to wear revealing clothes because of guys like me loving the looks of you girls that love to wear revealing clothes saying DAMN girl you're hot but me I don't mind it matter of fact I would encourage my girlfriend to wear something sexy and enjoy the looks of other guys as they look at her and say FUCK how did he get that girl

[Andres77]

If a boy is complaining about your clothes... hold out for a man next time.
If a boy is trying to change your behavior... date a man instead

Don't confuse manhood with agezl, there's a lot of growing boys that are well into their 40's.

Noone should try to change you. That's up to you.

[ohshee]

If I'm going out with someone I'm sure one of the things that I like about her is the way she dresses. If there is a way that she likes to dress and look then I like it to ,,, if it makes her feel and look beautiful then yes wear it because I love the smile it puts on her face ,, if guys look at her its all good , i would look to lol if I was a girl and my boyfriend told me I couldn't wear some thing ,,, I would put it on that moment and tell him to go kick beer cans

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

My husband doesn't stop me from wearing them. He actually likes it when other guys eye me up and down. We even use it to our advantage and play on it when we go out lol.

[sirshizzle]

I really enjoy when my wife wears sexy revealing outfits and other guys notice. She enjoys the attention as well

[master_splinter_0301]

Do the stares bother you?

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

@master_splinter_0301 nope they can look all they like because I'm leaving with my husband lol

[sirshizzle]

I was wondering what you meant by "play on it when we go out"?

[sirshizzle]

@master_splinter_0301 I don't mind the stares either. I kind of like knowing guys are checking out my wife

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

@sirshizzle me and my girlfriend go out sometimes to our favorite cocktail lounge right before my husband gets off work. We are flirty with people when we go out... then my husband will finally get there and step up to the bar away from us like he doesn't know us to watch. Then he comes in to ruin it for the poor guy trying to pick us up lol

[sirshizzle]

Lol.. nice. Sounds pretty hot!! I've often stood back and just watched my wife flirt and tease. She enjoys it and I like watching her

[nawtee_me]

I believe you reveal just enough, not to much but just enough. I am aroused every time I look at your pics as you are so sexy. As for guys looking at other girls I think it has to do with two things. One, the grass is always greener on the other side syndrome. and Two, seeing something you don't get to see often. (Taboo of another girls breast.)

[Michael10158]

Because why would i want my woman to wear clothes that attract other males to her body. Yes men see physical parts and are attracted and they know that so they know more men are going to be attracted to her. If they are younger than 26 they have high testosterone and nature sends chemicals to breed and aren't ready to be responsible and start a family

[Cherokeehp]

Because they don’t want other men to see you and want you too. But personally, my boyfriend can never stop me from wearing whatever I want anyway. He’s just gonna have to deal with it.

[Charli7]

Red flag for controlling guy! Wear what you want that makes you happy. It's your body. What you're wearing in the pic is perfectly fine.

[FakeName123]

Wanting to bang a girl =/= wanting a relationship with a girl.

[VanillaSalt]

Revealing clothing a sign your op perm for business and men don’t want their gfs being open for any other business than them.

[Walt832]

For me I really don't mind. I enjoy seeing her beautiful plus showing off my girlfriend. 😉

[Proxyz123]

Girls should be given the choice to wear whatever they want. Appreciating beauty is nothing wrong but you shouldn't cheat your girlfriend. Tell her how pretty she is and be faithful. girlfriend should also appreciate beauty when it's in front of you.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Cuz some girls wanna fuck everyone except who they're supposed to

[chriscdi]

hangry down there has a point on one thing for sure is that we do know what goes through a guys mind

[Luna1998]

Could i assume that when a guy said hanging out with his female friends means more than just chatting?

[chriscdi]

that all depends on the guy and his intentions, some when they say hang out they literally mean hang out

[chriscdi]

but yea you make a point when it comes to some men

[jasco]

When i date a girl, i usually just look at her when i see other girls. Avoid problems that can be easily avoided if given the thought

[winterfox10]

Because revealing clothing is a form of advertising.

[Anonymous]

Yeah women who expose themselves for sexual attention get out attention because it’s biological. We are visually stimulated and women who do that shit are using our biology against us.
But we don’t want a partner like that.