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I want my boyfriend to date other women as well as me. Is this realistic? (Page 2)
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Genius idea. What could possibly go wrong? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
It's a bit weird, but if you're Ok with it, then go for it.
Although, that might not turn out the way you imagined it.
I date many girls at a time.
I don't believe in relationships
I want you in pm right now.
He will definitely have his favorite one. If it is you, she will leave him for better. If it is her, you will eventually leave him for better.
@18JGNH0310
have u had a threesome like this?
Well, if it was me that would send me a crystal clear message that you really don’t care about me romantically, so I would call it quits with you and move on.
yea, men can handle more than 1 women at once. especially if they are with eahother also
the name for this is called being a cuckquean by the way
Honestly, you sound like you actually want to justify seeing another man.
Why do you want him to date other women? Will you be dating other men? Is this a sister wives type of thing?
Can we PM about it?
I am hesitantly saying yes.
What if he doesn't want to stop?
You can't control that. Other people's decisions isn't something that we can control.
True. If he really doesn't care about my opinion that much, I'd break up with him anyway
How can you say if he do that, that you are still his girlfriend?
Dating is so complex these days, I don't know how a man can juggle the feelings of two women at the same time. I know I couldn't.
Best that you understand polyamoury before you try it.
You have to set limits otherwise it is just uncontrolled open relationship
Are you okay with him having sex with other women?
Is he willing to accept you fucking other guys?
I'm okay with him, but I REFUSE to mess with other men. Not happening.
Okay. That is unusual?
What happens if he catches feelings with more than one of the girls?
That's what I'm counting on! I want to be in a relationship where my boyfriend loves more than one of us, myself included.
I can see loving more than one woman. But you don't think you could love more than one guy?
No, not really. From my Psychology studies at University, I found that a lot of the feelings of "love" I had felt in my life until now were mostly infatuation and lust. Upon deeper inspection into it, I discovered how little we really understand about love scientifically. So I turned to what remains consistent across time (a good measure for truth).
To my surprise, I discovered that in no period of history has polyandry been morally positive. Morally acceptable, sure, but only in societies that had a loose definition or whose moral concept was fading before their collapse. Deeper in nature, I found more evidence of it that I won't explain here for fear of boring you. Finally, I turned inward and came to recognize I am COMPLETELY incapable of feeling the deep love for my boyfriend at the same time as someone else.
While I could love two people at once and would believe they would be capable of the same, I still might have a problem sharing either of those girls with another guy... if that makes any sense.
Totally. Women are status oriented, which is not additive, while men are territory oriented, which is. It goes against your basest instincts to share a woman, which is why I don't understand cuckold fantasy.
It is possible. But it's not something anyone can know without knowing your boyfriend. Multiple partners can make thing wonderful but always makes things more complicated.
That’s a disaster waiting to happen nothing positive to come out of this But temptation island
I just read your other question obviously you want threesomes and to share the girl with him
Yes, Like in a threesome, make sure your boyfriend knows you might want THE SAME.
I don't think he's going to have a problem with that lol.
Unless you are "going steady" (I'm old) or engaged, he can date whomever he likes, in my opinion.
It's possible, there are several polyrelationships. I don't think your idea of "just telling him to stop" will work so well though.
Handling two people is way too hard, just have an open relationship.
Casual shit is way easier to handle.
@junelady
why dont you set up a fmf threesome or even set up living in a Ménage à trois
Right, something like that (thanks for the fancy term by the way)
I would love to live in a menage a trois as would mean threesome sex but also the girls could play together or if one is in a mood then i can have the other while first cools down :D
@junelady
why do u want him to date others? r u bi?
@junelady can you unblock rebeliouse for a sec? He didn’t mean to offend you.
@loves2learn I don't think I have him blocked...
No worries, love. Wrong one.
I've done it and it is great for everyone involved.
From what you are saying, what is more realistic is that you do not want a boyfriend.
You're referring to an open relationship/polygamy. It's not common but it's certainly possible yes
Before I answer this I really need to understand your motivations behind this.
its realistic and can happen if you all agree and work on that
That sounds like you want to play with him to satisfy your own curiosity.
As long your okay with it careful cause he could fall for her not want to come back.
@emily1101
have u had a threesome like this?
Sure he can but ultimately I think you will be the one to stop it.
I have no idea what he can handle but I wonder if you are deliberately setting him up for a fight?
Either he feels he lucky to be with you or hasn't the confidence to do it
Is it so you will not feel guilty about seeing other guys
No, I don't want to see any other guys. Smart thought tho
does he have a high sex drive and you a low
It's less with drive and more with satisfaction. I can't please him nearly as well as he can please me
Polygamy always fails.
Interesting. Why do you think that?
It's obvious? Jealousy, STDs, unstable family dynamic, dysfunction - polygamy is based off of lust and selfishness, just unsustainable in the long run. Plus it's logical to be monogamous.
STD's is more frequent in hookup culture than polygamous. From nearly every credible source I've found, polygyny may be more stable than monogamy. The assumption that the relationship is always based on lust is a hasty generalization logical fallacy. And you still need to explain how it's "logical". That's not an argument in and of itself.
Credible sources? Show me? And stop using words that you don’t understand the meaning of. It is logical to be monogamous which I have listed the reasons above. Hookup culture IS polygamy if you haven’t noticed. Everyone is getting the leftovers. Why do you think people especially women don’t want to disclose how many people they slept with? There’s NO HONESTY anymore in relationships, that’s why divorce happens. On top of THAT, you think polygamy will make things better. 🙄
Lol I need to explain how it’s logical to people like you but by default it is. Look at most cultures and history, mostly monogamous.
"Monogamy and polygyny in Greece, Rome, and world history" by W Scheidel. It refutes the claim that polygamy is inherently flawed.
Hookup culture is when there is no commitment involved and no intention of long-term relationships. Polygamy is engaging in long-term relationships with more than one person.
While monogamy IS more common due to male to female ratios, modern Western culture is one of the only ones to not practice polygyny. Rome, Greece, Egypt, Israel, China, Japan, Native American tribes, even Europe several centuries back.
None of your aforementioned "logical reasons" are necessary and sufficient conditions to polygyny. Those are more closely associated with hookup and adultery culture than polygamous culture.
Okay good luck with your poly relationships.
As long both parties and I don't think he would mind lol
Yeah, I'd like to do something like that at some point
What most men do or want to why you incouriging him to lol
It's something they like he's probably doing it already to you so don't worry about it
you're just asking for unneccessary trouble aren't you
That all depends on all involved parties.
Sounds like a troll. Why would you want that?
@aphrodite801
have u had a threesome like this?
Horrible idea, really?
Why do you want this? Are you poly?
You want your boyfriend to date other women? Why?
Several reasons. I'd rather PM about them though
Ok...
Are you a man pretending to be a woman?
High likely lol
The fu.. I am reading :D
Been there done that. Seriously enjoyed it.
If you start it, you might not be able to stop it
The issue isn't him being with other women it's the belief that you thi k you can stop it once it starts if you change your mind.
He can. Doesn't mean he will
He fan date you both, he'll love neither of you.
He can, but those are dangerous waters.
I mean some men can and some women can but yea
Sure, it's called not going steady
I think your just looking for a way out
Depends on if he's in love with you. If not yes
Proof that you are not in-love with him
A lady CUCK. A CUCKETTE?
I need a girl one like this for sure.
Interesting... are you really sure you would want a woman like this? Have you stopped to think about the implications of what you are expected to reciprocate with? What do you think she will be doing while you are busy with another woman? Perhaps, getting pregnant by another man and thus expecting you to take care of another man child? What are you going to do... like get a damn paternity test every time she gets pregnant... just to make sure it's yours. Everyone will know that you allow your girl to be with whomever she wants... and you want to stay with that and tell the world she is your significant other. When would the machetes come out?
Your boyfriend is hell of a lucky guy😂
Yeah he can. So u want to date 2’guys too?
You should move to Utah
Why not just be single