I obey my boyfriend, is it that weird?

[Marie__1]

My boyfriend and I have a strong dom-sub relationship, in which I obey him practically completely. Everytime we tell others about it, they can't understand that at all and think it's wrong

[MrOracle]

Most people don't understand a Dom/Sub relationship, so you shouldn't expect them to.

What matters is: do YOU want that kind of relationship (and does he?), and does he respect you and treat you well? If the answers to those questions are "yes", then it's fine. Obviously it's not okay for him to be abusive towards you, but many girls are submissive and they WANT their man to take charge and make the decisions - and they want his decisions to reflect HER needs and desires and also look out for HER best interests, but they still want HIM to make the decisions. As long as you both understand this, then it's okay, but it's also something that a lot of people will never really understand.

[The_Maphio]

BDSM is a bitch to understand.
Even much so if you hear how that stuff works and you didn't ever even think about doing any of that with your partner. No wonders you raised many eyebrows. I discuss this stuff with people I know fairly often (more than I'm interested to admit, I'll add) and I still fail to understand the logic behind most of it.

[ChrisMaster69]

Not really, it’s just lifestyle BDSM.

funnily enough D/s is not actually just the bedroom, in porn it is, in reality it’s far deeper.

So nothing at all wrong or weird with it.

the majority of my relationships have been the same.

however I would learn to be a sub rather than a door mat, a sub runs the relationship.

[bowenw]

There is no normal. People are weird that think everyone should be like them. If you find people react negatively you may want to keep the dom-sub relationship to yourself.

[Levin]

tbh, that's really hot. That's what I'm looking for in a girlfriend. At least in the bedroom.

[Wiredone]

Is he much older than you? If he was, then I could understand that. There isn't many women who would obey their partners every command. It's like you're a puppet and he controls you

[Wise4myage]

Its only weird if you don't like it or you are being forced, which isn't happening. So enjoy yourself and have fun. :)

[ashish804]

not weird but this should be during sex only as in real life u will loose ur importance

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Not at all. As long he respects and treats you right then you should submit to your man.

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with that. You are a good girl and hopefully he takes very good care of you

[Theo21]

It's a tpe relationship it's cool

[MannMitAntworten]

Just how you two are...