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Why is it difficult to find love? (Page 2)

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  • TheSpaceGnome
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    Well, what kind of person are you looking to find? Because that has a huge inpact on both difficulty level and the right solution to finding them.

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  • Wowie101
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    Its not... now in love with a compatible partner that’s difficult

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  • Ripper_E
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    Because it's something that develops over time, and it won't happen with everyone you meet. Some people aren't in your life long enough.

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  • 1stranger
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    420 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    I found him in a complicated maze like this😊. So I think I found..

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  • TheBigGuy9
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    Because it takes work. Almost half our country is unemployed. Not to mention social media. Many people would rather be adored by many people instead of one. can't make up their mind.

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    • TheBigGuy9
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      Don’t feel bad. You’re only 24

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  • In_Trance
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    Because you keep looking in the same place using the same methods expecting different results

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  • ItsMeItsMe1989
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    life is what you make it-miley cyrus

    basically what she's saying is.. you determine your own destiny.. you determine how you live your life, so, if you choose to make it hard to find love, then it'll be hard

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  • NikolaiIvanov
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    This should explain it.

    Why is it difficult to find love?
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  • ryancg
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    Because you're looking for it. You have to just kinda let it happen without thinking too much about it.

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  • Peter0076
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    Do you really want to fall in love?
    Many girls just want to have fun or to have sex or to find a guy with a lot of money but never for falling in love

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  • themythos
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    Social media created unrealistic standards in romance while making the bare minimum look rare. people are shallow when dating but hookup and do "casual relationships" insteqd of dating in general

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  • Twalli
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    Love ie easy, being inova is hard. If you want love get a dog and it will love you as long as you feed it, per it, give it treats, and entertain it. Dogs are entertained by going on walks.

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  • ChevyChic100
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    Because in this generation people don't seem to have a clue about relationships or what love is all about they just seem to care about what ever they want at the time or what ever there gonna benifet from and they dom even no what ride or die even is

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  • ClassyMe
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    Because all anyone wants to do is hookup and play games.

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  • K-I-S-S
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    It's easy to love somebody, but hard to find somebody who loves you back.

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    • Cathy7734
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      So true!

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  • Marco10
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    Because it’s a matter of meeting someone you’re compatible with at the right time in your life; and theirs. That’s not easy.

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  • TheAfrikan
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    ⚫Because there is nothing like a perfect person. We just have to bare with them and see how we are to hold in there. So love is Abou t getting used to that person amd relating with them.

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  • monkeynutts
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    779 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    You might be looking in the wrong places and finding the wrong people.

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  • MLGbreezy
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    Cause people are looking for love at a time when most don't really want that.

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  • RHK36
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    Finding love is easy. Staying in love can be a bit tricky.

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  • AFellowWeeb
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    High standards.
    I see a lot of fat chicks wanting to date fit guys or wanting to be with a playboy that won't cheat on them... gl

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  • Anonymous
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    It isn't. You are just blind. Go look a mirror. Love starts from within

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  • OddBeMe
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    Because we have a media-driven view of the “perfect relationship” and thus cancel potential mates that might be a pretty good match.

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    • RCLJT
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      What cracks me up are the women that want a “ real man” for their fake eyelashes, mile thick makeup, fake tits, nose job, liposuction Fanny pads.

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    • OddBeMe
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      @RCLJT Yeah, but men want porn stars who are virgins yet leave them alone when we’re video gaming, just keeping it 100...

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    • RCLJT
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      🤣👍🏻 see my comment farther up the thread

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  • Djaay
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    365 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Its not. Finding yourself and reflecting yourself out there so others may see you is more or so the real question.

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  • NibirX
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    Because right love will come to you by own... You just have to focus on your way So that you don't have to be dependent on your love... One thing , Real love doesn't crave sex...

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  • Paulychicago10
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    Love comes with time. We seek love first but don't realize lives comes last in the relationship

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  • Unbeatable
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    Because love comes from the gods and people dont believe in them

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  • JamieLoves
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    Love is a myth. It’s all chemical! Pheromones!
    Get Cats... Lots of Cats !!

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    • WA786K
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      🤣🤣🤣 man, red pill is the way my guy.

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    • JamieLoves
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      @WA786K 👍🏻👊🏻

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    • JamieLoves
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      @WA786K MGTOW!

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    • WA786K
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      @JamieLoves #MGTOW All the way save a mans life from Western society bull crap, real talk.

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  • Bklynbadboy12
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    It difficult cause its scary now a days to put yourself out there and allow your self to feel when you know its a big possibility your gonna get hurt

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  • fred_durst
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    you dont have any hobby?
    love is not always about between a man and woman , FYI

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  • TallAnon
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    I feel like love isn't something you find, it's something you nurture with a good person.

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  • InferiorElegy
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    451 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Because love is just a word, love doesn't actually exist.

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  • jerdanro
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    Because it's hard to find someone who checks all the boxes.

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  • anylolone
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    571 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Because people don't know what they want or how to evaluate what they can get.

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  • BMWE46M3
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    Because girls are the ones that have the options not the boys

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  • princeofromance
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    601 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    I ask myself that same question everyday of my life.

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  • egykimo
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    Because of lack of honesty and for many people being insecure and fake.

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  • curator
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    It's not difficult to find love actually whats difficult is to find a connection, a spark, the understanding that's what's difficult

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  • Alpha4U
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    Western society have weird obsession of love to the point you love the idea not the person.
    other cultures dont have as westerners do...

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  • Texasguy99
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    I think for some it’s easy. But most of us it’s hard

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  • abhi75757
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    Because love full form is

    L-lost
    O-on
    V-various
    E-elements

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  • SpaceGalaxy
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    321 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

    Because love is the master of hiding & that is why you cannot find it so easily.

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  • Taurus90
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    Not difficult but you have to be very focused and ready truly

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  • Anonymous
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    because women cheat and can't be trusted. they have no loyalty and don't know how to be faithful. they like to branch swing like monkeys

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  • RSStevedmj
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    If you're not chasing it, and just let it come naturally, you'll find it.

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  • Anonymous
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    Because life and Society has always meant to be cruel or an injustice

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  • Anonymous
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    it's not

    you just do not love
    that simple

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  • Anonymous
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    Its only difficult for unattractive men to find love. everyone else is ok

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  • Finchie40
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    Your search is over , Damn😍

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    • Finchie40
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      I blame a lot of it on social media , to many people are glued to their phones and constantly comparing their lives to others , thinking grass is greener on the other side , people’s morals are pretty much destroyed from nonsense they see or hear on social media , pretty much every girl is a whore and every guy is a fuck boy , if people actually put their phones down and looked at the world around them they would realize most the shit they see on social media is bullshit

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  • Anonymous
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    With such cleavage on every other girls profile pic 😍 it gets hard💦

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  • Ninjazzed
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    People don’t want others for love anymore.

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  • invalid1
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    Because it's an illusion.

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  • JosyJosy
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    Cause it takes time and everyone's different

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  • Alexasin97
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    Cause people like playing the field.

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  • BoobMan
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    Two things really: Standards and Competition.

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  • jahaims
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    Because the general population are morons

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  • _Troian_
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    We men are all same ; ) sorry about that hah.

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  • Dchrls78104
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    Because it is not popular to show love.

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  • Iron_Man u
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    I know tell me about it

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  • RawaajUK
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    Because people donot want to marry.

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