Has anyone been a victim of narcissist abuse?

[narc-survivor]

YES

NO

[Mgpretty23]

Yes. My whole world changed because of one guy. All of my emotions were toyed with. If one day I was actually happy, he would find a way to bring me down. So it would be hard for me to reach eternal happiness, which was my goal and I was pretty close to getting there too, if he had chose to help me but he didn’t. One day he was so cold that he made me cry. Before I cried he didn’t even acknowledge what he had just done to me. When he noticed me crying in the corner, he took me somewhere where he tried to make me closer to him, we hugged for like an hour, not even exaggerating. He definitely saw me as an object. He used all of my struggles against me, didn’t matter what it was. I was definitely a vulnerable person and he knew that, so he pretended to care about me in the beginning just to ultimately bring me down in the end. He definitely belittled my emotions. And as for the denial part, one day he was in my house and then I was standing against the wall and leaned back and smiled real wide because I was so happy to see him. He had went dashing towards me and for the thrill of it, I ran in the other direction, he the swooped me up from behind. Later on I had asked him why he did that and he denied that he did, just to make me feel crazy. Mind you I never wanted to have sex with him because he was cruel. I swear some of the moments he gave me were the best moments of my life and of course more of them were some of the worst. Long story short, he raped me and from then on out, a large part of me was just destroyed and he knew it too. Nothing really gave me joy anymore, nothing.. The thing is I was vulnerable and was relying on him to lift me up which was stupid I know. It was more than just him insulting me, he would humiliate me, and degrade me. Just trust me it was bad. I just wanted him to be my friend.

[doopayo]

Yes, my dads a narcissist.


Today, during Mother’s Day he randomly showed up at my door (he’s divorced to my mom, and hasn’t been in contact with us for months.. didn’t even wish me a happy birthday (my birthday was 3 months ago) and he lives in a different state than us but all of a sudden he shows up at our door and tells my mom he wants to talk to me.


Straight up narcissist. He expects me to drop everything I’m doing just for him when he does absolute Jack shit for me 😭?

[TheUniqueOne96]

Mentally yes, some pricks just always feel the need to constantly throw unnecessary digs at people regardless.

I've had my mental health ruined because of some dickhead's ego, to the pointed where I went to the doctors because my mental state was fucked up and surprise surprise, they thought nothing was wrong with me, despite quite clearly being down and over a year later, refusing to apologize, fuck that prick, don't care if they're family, because apparantly other people can't have issues, so they'll have a 1000 excuses not to care.

[es20490446e]

No. I'm just too straightforward for that people. I would cut their shit clean.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yes and why had to cut that person out of my life...

[NoFuxGvn]

It's how most people in this generation get attention!

[Anonymous]

Yeah, it sucks. Was my mom

[White_Widow]

Yes 😣

[Jesus_is_the_guey]

Lollllll