If you passed away, would you really want your spouse or love of your life to find another person to be with? (Page 2)

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This question has a lot to think about such as the age of you and your SO, whether or not you two had children, how long you'd want them to wait, etc.  Naturally, I do not feel like we would want our significant others to find another person to be with even after we've passed. I think it is normal for us to want them for ourselves, even though we are not around anymore to be with them. Despite this normal feeling, we can understand why they would want to be with another person after we've passed as life can be challenging, cruel, tough, unforgiving, and tiring especially more so while alone.  Perhaps it is unrealistic and unreasonable to expect our loved ones to remain alone after we've passed. How would we feel if there was an afterlife and we reunited with them and their lover (s)? What would be said? How would we feel?  What if our loved ones were just as content being alone as they were getting with someone else? What would we recommend for them to do? Would we still want them to be with someone? Do you really love someone if you would be okay with them being with someone else?  There's a lot to think about and consider.

Agape93 · Answer

Absolutely yes. I’m gone, they deserve to find someone new to love and be loved by.

Máiiréad · Answer

I would 100% want them to find someone else and to be happy. Without a doubt in my mind.

karaspara · Answer

I wouldn't want to be forgotten but I would want him to have a long happy life so if he could find love again I would be happy

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

if I were dead I wouldn't be physiologically able to want anything. Thoughts are a privilege of the living.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I told my husband that he may do so if I died ahead of him. He refused.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'm dead so, what does it matter? As long as she's happy. HOPEFULLY, she'd wait a good while before going on the hunt, again!

Leavesbound · Answer

Of course I would. In fact I would threaten to come back and haunt them if they didn't.

SpaceNinja04 · Answer

It would hurt me but honestly I think it would hurt even more seeing them alone 😩

have_a_good_day · Answer

Uh no 😒 they should be miserable forever because I'm the best gift they could have

LemiaOfTheCodes · Answer

If they are comfortable with moving on then yes I would be fine with that.

Miristheiss · Answer

I do not want them with anyone else but I'd be dead so it is moot.

beebella · Answer

They can do whatever they want. Once I'm dead, what I want doesn't really matter anymore.

FlowerSeed · Answer

No because I know that no one could ever replace me. Ever.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

Yes I would, it would be very selfish of me have her be alone for the rest of her life. I'm dead, so I can't be there, so I'd rather someone else be there for her the same way I was.

IveGotNoName · Answer

After an appropriate number of years, yes. I want them to be happy again

fonduegirl · Answer

Once I'm gone, I don't think it's matter. It's more than enough they'd cherish our memories.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I wouldn't want her to live sadness cause she lost me

UnknownGagsUser · Answer

Yeah I don't want someone I love to stay miserable without me

DJB72 · Answer

I'd want her to be happy again, and I'd want my son to have a good model to become a good man.

DiegoO · Answer

If I pass away I will mostlikely dye single. 🤔 I have some things I would like my family to take care of, beside my pet.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Hell yeah! And I hope he has a big dick! She deserves it. That's her prize for staying with me so long.

Juxtapose · Answer

If I believed in an afterlife, I wouldn't move on cus we'd be together in the afterlife right? But as it stands once I die I cease to exist.

clampfan101 · Answer

Yes. I’d want her to feel loved and happy. I want what’s best for her. (And for the kids if we had any.)

najekim · Answer

By the time either of us kick the bucket everyone around our age will already have one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel. . . . LOL!

WhiteWolf69 · Answer

I would absolutely want them to be happy in their life and not sit there miserable pinning over me after I'm gone. After they make it through the grieving process and they are ready

bulletbob555 · Answer

Definitely wouldn't want her to always be alone. I'm sure a period of mourning would make me feel better. I would want her to be happy

HarryHanzo · Answer

Ofcourse why not. It's life. We can't live our whole life alone just for the person who is not even alive

mrkdvsn · Answer

I would very much want my wife to either remarry, or continue to be good friends with the men that she already knows

Luckycharms12 · Answer

That's a very hard question. I guess yes because you love them and want them to be happy with or without you in this case

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

I don't think there's a point dating a corpse. I would let her go. I'd turn asexual when im dead anyway l.

OfDeath · Answer

I wouldn't give a crap and I couldn't even want to. I would be dead.

AmeerX · Answer

I think it is alright if they do. Especially if I died young in my 40-50s

Iron_Man · Answer

Hell Nah what’s the point of giving everything I own for her just to find somebody else

princeofromance · Answer

Yes, I want her to have the best life possible. Even after I am dead and gone.

msc545 · Answer

Yes, I would. I would want them to have a full and happy life.

Andy1987 · Answer

Yes if u really loved ur partner u want them to be happy but my memories never fade away

jimmy2 · Answer

All depends on ones age. Its death due you 2 depart so its really no import from uour spouce

Alexalex92 · Answer

I honestly don't know what to say... But I would want her to be happy but also to not forget me.

wickhamhayls · Answer

lol. so you control peope from beyond the grave loool.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

To be honest I don't really care coz I'll be dead.

whatdoyouwantt · Answer

I have to find the spouse first 🤣

serenaluna666 · Answer

I’ll keep it short and simple: No.

Coulis · Answer

Of course I would. I'm dead.

slatyb · Answer

Of course. I want them to be happy.

Pink2000 · Answer

No I wouldn’t and he wouldn’t want to.

pink_and_inlove · Answer

No I would be a jealous bitch in heaven 😂

Phoenix98 · Answer

I’d want them to be happy.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

The beauty of being single...

noob__master · Answer

Yep I’m gone. No need to stay focused on me.

David_Kek · Answer

Wouldn't widow burning solve that problem?

PinkGiraffee · Answer

Absolutely. I care about their happiness.

Jxrdyn_13 · Answer

Yes I just want them to be happy

texas_giiirl30 · Answer

Yes I’d want them to be happy 💖

GoldenTulip · Answer

Yes because i wish them a happy life without me.

ponderingmind · Answer

Definitely! She should be happy and enjoy life!!!

Shihab91 · Answer

I want them to be happy... Doesn't matter how.

SlavBoi · Answer

If I were dead I wouldn't care probably

Guanfei · Answer

I'd be dead, why would I care?

ManHater · Answer

She can burn in hell.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

I'm dead. I'm not obligated to stop her

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