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My girlfriend asked if I wanted an open relationship. I don’t understand why, has she got feelings for this other guy? (Page 2)
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She dont care about u or feelings at all. I wonder why she asked for such thing if she knews you won't like it? I mean maybe you are agree all time with whatever she say and u show not courage or temper so she is like walking on you like nothing happen. She maybe is already with that guy and you didn't even noticed about it tahts why she its telling u that way.
It sounds to me that you are living in different places and are having some kind of long distance relationship. This arrangement is not satisfactory for her and she wants to have a local guy for when you are not around.
I would laugh at her and then just walk away.
Boy, dump the girl and move on. She doesn’t care about you or your feelings. Find a nice girl who like you and respects you for who you are.
Dump her now cause she's already gone mentally. She may have already cheated and using this as a way to get permission to be given guilt free pass to cheat. Check out (red it) for women asking for open relationships and the failing results.
Do not go with her plans, have a clean break now, and find yourself a better woman.
She might not have feelings for him, but your "coming for a visit" implies this is a long distance relationship. And they don't work, because you always underestimate the importance of physically being there.
She wants a guy who's there. You're not.
She just asked for a way to cheat on you without you being allowed to be upset.
Walk away. She obviously already has
Sounds like you are talking about a future cheater if you don't. Is this the kind of girl you really want to be with, one you can't trust or who won't make you the one and only?
A relationship is born from understanding. If you are uncomfortable with it, tell her so. She may not think of it as a big of a matter as you yourself believe it to be. Explain that you don't want a third party. If she does not listen and neither of you are willing to compromise, then it is best to break things off before it devolves into rancid toxicity.
I think this relationship is not gonna work anyways, and her having feelings for someone else just prove it, you gotta tell her what your thoughts about it are. Good luck.
That is a HUGE RED FLAG. People think that open relationships benefit the relationship, but in reality, they actually detriment the relationship by causing so many problems like jealousy and confusion. BREAK UP WITH THAT GIRL AND RUN!!! 🏃💨
Not always. If both parties act like adults and not kids and come to a mutual understanding that it's just sex and it doesn't matter there would be no problem. Also there is such a thing as vetting the other person to make sure they aren't going to trigger any insecurities or jealousy
Yes she has or she’s thinking about cheating. Unless you’ve been cheating to and suspects it, u can’t really trust her
I'm sorry. But I would just break up. If you're wanting multiple people, you're not actually wanting a relationship you're just wanting intimacy.
"Something I’m against." Dude dont be a simp. Dump her ass immediately. If she still wants you she will beg for you back and apologize and behave for you. If she is ok with it, she doesn't love you and was planning to leave or cheat anyways.
Don't do it you will never win just break it off with her.
Monogamy isn't for everyone. If one of you is monogamous and the other isn't then it's doomed anyways. Focus on compatibility.
Your girlfriend is asking permission to cheat on you, and eventually, she will leave you for this guy or another guy. Get rid of her now before things get worse. Become familiar with the concept of hypergamy - they all do it.
If it makes you feel better, she will eventually do the same thing to the new guy she is doing to you.
I'd tell her she didn't have anything to worry about, go be happy & forget about me as I'll find someone else.
Don't do anything your not okay with
High likelyhood unless she pulls some immatur insecurity shit test.
Personal would I have a serious talk with her about the whole thing, our relationship and her feelings.
If she is asking, she’s already screwing around. She just hopes you agree so as to put her guilty conscious at ease.