Does not being married or in a relationship after your 30's mean you fail at life? (Page 2)

Question

I've seen woman who are older then 30 not complaining and enjoying life without thinking too much about relationships but with men it's different. They won't throw a fit about it but every time some of their close friends get into a relationship, some become a bit bitter. Why does that happen?

Omario2049 · Answer

Not really but YES. 30s for women is 50s. Maybe now you can do a bunch of charity work or something that makes a significant contribution to your community 🤷🏾‍♂️

big_smoke699 · Answer

Not at all , I would never want a women in my life just because of I feel alone , if everybody is bad in my environment , being lonely is much better than that...

MannMitAntworten · Answer

I know of no men or women who behave as you described.

LonelyDeer · Answer

No, it doesn't mean you fail. Some people are bitter because they're jealous/envious

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Not here in Europe, middle to upper class women marry (if) in their mid 30s

Anonymous · Answer

Relationships, body count, children aren't indicators for life quality in my opinion. I think only people who failed in these three points overvalue importance of relationship and marriage, hence they come up with this assumption.

Pogi-Paddy-2 · Answer

I am 53 and I am still single and never been married. I am not a failure, just haven't found that special woman yet. 😎

Shamalien · Answer

For women it’s a lot more important than men to be in a relationship by 30.

lycanthrope3 · Answer

not at all, everyone travels a different path, enjoy your life, do not expect certain events to happen by a certain time, do not force anything, let life happen

kitty71 · Answer

Im 50 and never get married and im still single why you feel u are a failure?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Maybe it's because men are actually more romantic than women.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Nikola Tesla died a virgin at age 86 (or so I have read). I wouldn't call him a failure.

genericname85 · Answer

well if you set yourself the goal in life before you're 30, then yeah.

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Absolutely not, one gets mature enough by that age to know the priorities

Anonymous · Answer

1. Jealousy 2. Lost their wingman 3. Insecure about his future Those are guesses.

TheGreatAwan · Answer

For a man this is alpha behavior and shows that you aren't a beta provider. For women it is a sign that she is damaged goods and the babies she gives birth to will probably come out fucking retarded.

Jerre · Answer

No it does not mean you failed. For me and my friends with benefits, IT IS A CHOICE.

Havill4nd · Answer

I hope not, I'm 27 today and still trying to figure it out.

007kingifrit · Answer

its a bad sign. but our entire generation is doing really badly... so i guess we all fail at life?

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. Marriage isn't a measuring stick to measure if you succeeded in life or not.

najekim · Answer

Nope. Just haven't stumbled across the right person yet.

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

Yes, if that's what you obsess about. People can make it as much of an issue as they want.

Anonymous · Answer

The only One Big Failure is failing to secure a Jesus-escort to New Jerusalem upon His 2nd Coming... RATHER than an eternal BURNING in The Lake Of Fire

AlongCameCindy · Answer

Well in that case i will be failing at life, i'm not even sure if i want either of the two.

Twalli · Answer

The likliehood of them getting married is decreasing.

Asianguy123 · Answer

the older they become the less they have chance to get married. They become more selfish and self conscious.

Anonymous · Answer

i've seen guys with kids look at me envious since i don't have any kids. i see the look on their faces envy jealousy you name it.

Sambelfast198526 · Answer

I'm 36 and havnt been married buy been very close to it.

Christina97_ · Answer

No you just haven’t met the person that your looking for.

Slim57 · Answer

No just means you fail at recreating life, but who cares your life is yours to live do what you want

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Maybe they feel something is missing in their lives and they don't know it 🤷🏾‍♂️

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't mean you fail but understandably your pool get smaller

Anonymous · Answer

Well I'm sure they had plenty of boyfriends or dates and their teens and twenties

Anonymous · Answer

I hope not. I hope that I have more time to succeed.

ElizaPam · Answer

Only if you’re a woman

etexbearkat · Answer

No. I want to make sure I find the right person.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

It does not mean that

RoyalGuy_PRO · Answer

You know that is not true

Vietnemin · Answer

I don't fail but I do feel kinda lonely

Anonymous · Answer

People are more than their relationship status…..

kevyhanma · Answer

Nah if your a girl it just means your ugly

es20490446e · Answer

I'm slow, but I always get there.

Texasguy99 · Answer

Not at all. Means you haven’t had success dating.

Supernormal · Answer

Not at all, infact I love girls more in thier 3o's

pink_and_inlove · Answer

No it doesn’t that’s just some social standard

AmeerX · Answer

Well, they feel left out and jealous of course

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Because most men are fake and followers.

thathonestman · Answer

In this society, yes.

Ryfyle · Answer

Absolutely Suicide inducing in some folks.

LoveIsFake · Answer

Nope, you can get married at any age

Anonymous · Answer

If I had to guess it's because of the bro code.

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all, I'll be single for life at this rate

Willoughby23 · Answer

I don’t want to get married

jimmy2 · Answer

No baby you still young

Anonymous · Answer

Lol of course not. Life doesn't end or stop at 30.

sullyk1234 · Answer

no not at all

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Present Mam👻

Kate200005 · Answer

nope

stuntbrain · Answer

Failure

Guardian45 · Answer

I certainly hope not

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