First it was 35 years ago. Get over it.
And if it were me, I'd be more annoyed that she was swearing on a bible. She should know that doesn't mean anything to me.
"i start having these nightmares now thinking if she loved the sex and it was better then me, why?"
That's what men like you are most afraid of. Being compared other men, and the other guy being better in some way.
It's 35 years man. Do you honestly think she'd be with you 35 years if some other guy was better? Tell her it's fine, let it go, and don't be such an insecure guy.
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Then she's a cheater and a liar and you can't trust that she says she isn't cheating now like she was then. I'd tell her kindly to fuck off because the marriage is built on a lie.
I might forgive her, if it was 35 years ago, because holding onto a grudge after that long of a time period isn't healthy. But I would not trust her, and without trust, relationships usually tend not to last
Nope. You cheat on me and betray my trust, you’re done.
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