Can a man who truly, deeply, loves a woman, cheat on her? (Page 2)

[JosyJosy]

Yes, the love just wasn't strong enough

[jennette465]

Sure he can , men do that most times.

[Joker_]

Yeah if he's a fucking idiot

[EyesOfGod]

Anyone can cheat for any number of reasons.

[BazookaTrouper]

No, love and cheating are mutually exclusive.

[Omario2049]

Obama voice: YES... WE... CAN!!!

[PeacefulRainDrop]

No definitely not!

[Anonymous]

No, not if he is truly in love

[Opinion Owner]

I guess only one guy on here doesn’t think so keeps down voting us

[Shanaya_S]

The answer is:no!

[TessCasie]

Nope!

[Troychapman10]

When I was in love there was no one else but her

[jzi94]

no. if its love he would always put her first.

[JesseJayNeak]

No, why should he? And why would he?

[vshl866]

Your question is contradictory itself

[Anonymous]

Women cheat
men have sex

[blondie1234567]

Fresh and fit or kevin samuels psycho

[Opinion Owner]

@blondie1234567 Neither.

This is simple fact of biology

[Jaketea]

Biology says a complete family is good for the child's growth. If so many women are left single, human race will be chaotic. So, not necessarily. Just societal values.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jaketea haha nahhhh that’s society based on a religious system.
As animals (which humans are) Males are not meant to be monogamous, women are.
Men are suppose to provide and protect multiple women and women find the best male to provide for her. Which is why women are more social and men are more loners.
It’s why women are hypergamous.
etc.

[Jaketea]

Yes if you want to live in the stone age. I think evolution is going to tick away those who can't control their urges and make a lot of babies (I mean, think of the child support you have to pay or how many women are gonna abort your child if you are not with them). Animals that have higher intellect have fewer babies, e. g. dolphins. Sometimes there are people who says men are stronger so men should dominate. Yes, if we are living in stone age. We thrive because of our intellect, not because we are run faster than lions or are stronger than other animals.

[Opinion Owner]

@Jaketea Just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean basic biology doesn’t exist. Why do women just stop being physically weaker... you wanna exist in the stone age?
See how stupid your claim is...

[Jaketea]

umm, i am just saying biology is broad and also includes evolution and animals with higher intellect have fewer kids (they don't fuck around)? There are some guys who are better at controlling their urges and there are some guys like you. Evolution takes care of that. 'Why do women just stop being physically weaker.'? What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

@Jaketea Reducing it to “controlling urges” is simply a shaming tactic. Men who have the ability do what they want. The rest settle.

Just like women can’t control their “urge” to expose as much of themselves as possible for cheat sexual attention, but some do because they know it doesn’t work for them.

[Jaketea]

Uhh, I would very much prefer to have a rich guy to take care of my living, a hot guy to take care of sex, and a sweet guy to take care of my emotions and cook for me. You have to realize that 'wanting to fuck around' is not just what men want and cheating is not just what women want. Everybody wants it if there are no consequences.(Being called a slut/a golddigger etc.) It's just, some men and I also feel like we don't want to upset our partner. So we control our urges. If you cheat or have sex with many really depends on if you are a good person who cares about others' feelings or if you are traumatized (but if you are destroying your personality and your chances to end up with good people and be happy, that's not a good choice, no?)

[blondie1234567]

Can you just explain the exact reason why you think it's acceptable for men to cheat and not women? And leave biology or 'urges' out of it. If someone has the urge to murder someone that doesn't make it right. Oh they were just born with the biology that made them want to do that. I'm sure a jury would be every understanding.

A man cheating is the exact same as a woman cheating. There are many different things that can be considered cheating, so you have to determine how you want to define it in your relationship. But the rules are the same for both people.

Also, answer me this. Men love to say ooooh well we can screw chicks with no emotion it doesn't mean anything but whenever a chick screws a dude there has to be emotional connection for her. Ok sooo who are these chicks that you're cheating with then? Cos wouldn't they have to have an emotional connection in order to sleep with you? And then it's no longer meaningless sex. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

@blondie1234567 Where did I say it was ok for either?
All I said was that women “cheat” and men have sex.
The reason this is the case is because women get bursts of oxytocin during foreplay, sex, and orgasm and estrogen enhances it’s affects. Men only get a tiny amount during orgasm and testosterone nullify the effects.
So when women fornicate they become attached, men do NOT.

[blondie1234567]

Well I disagree, it's cheating for both unless you've both agreed to an open relationship

[Roguesalty]

Humans came up with the concept of marriage before religion, and while humans are technically animals, they are vastly different, from any other animal as you know, human babies couldn't survive on their own for at least the first 6 years, human females after giving birth (especially back before medicine advanced), needed care after giving birth, in fact even historically speaking Men who got a woman pregnant and left or rapist, we're considered awful human beings and criminals, most men took care of their families even before religion or marriage, so what you're saying is factually wrong, more evidence points that human beings are meant to be monogamous than not.

[Opinion Owner]

@Roguesalty Monogamy is a recent concept.
Within the last few hundred years.

[Anonymous]

its possible but less likely

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Yes.

[Robert_]

The excitement.

[Anonymous]

Yes, it happens all the time.

[lil_a]

Yes!

[ChocoBat]

Hell no

[Kelly6]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

he still can

[Anonymous]

Yes
a lot stories for that haha

[Jamie05rhs]

Doubtful.

[Iron_Man]

I wouldn’t

[SamFromFL]

Absolutely he can

[White_Widow]

How so? Enlighten me about how that's possible

[SamFromFL]

Many ways:

She could cut off communication so he talks to someone else and cheats emotionally

He could go to a bar and get drunk and cheat with someone there by having sex

He could have multiple personalities and cheat with one of them

She could take a trip and while gone he runs into an ex and is too weak to resist temptation.

Did you need more ways?

[White_Widow]

I can imagine how someone can cheat, that's not the problem. But cheating mostly happens when a relationship is failing which in turn means that that deep love isn't there anymore or never was. Because else there would be no temptation to cheat.

[SamFromFL]

Obv in most cases if each partners needs are being met there is not a good reason to find others to fill those needs. So if cheating happens ya one person (or both) has failed to give their partner what they need.

[Mustermann]

If he's French...

[In_Trance]

Yeah

[Maybe-Your-Neighbor]

Yeah

[Luckycharms12]

Yes he can

[fred_durst]

nope

[Tania16]

He can

[KrakenAttackin]

No, he will not.

[Pterodon]

Nope

[the_crazy_guy]

Yeah some men do so

[White_Widow]

How? Enlighten me please.

[the_crazy_guy]

Those guys are assholes. They love a girl deeply but still would go to other girls just for sex

[Tightlips]

Fuck no

[Slim57]

I say no

[rosierosie3]

I assume not