She fucked up. Time to put her under her own responsibility and she should own it up. Your daughters husband ought to know. He doesn't deserve not knowing the truth.
Either she tells him exactly what happened and not make excuses about it or try to beat around the bush or you tell him
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A mistake can be forgiven. I lie to cover up a mistake will destroy everyone involved. She should probably be the one to tell him; but if she doesn't you should. The truth will eventually come out. 23 and Me is infidelity exposing.
No, no man should ever deserve to be lied to that the child that he loves and cherished is not his. She should go to the man that got her pregnant. I honestly curious you really think this is ok?
It’s not good for him and you are not thinking what’s best for everyone as it’s not good for him. AND he will find out either from a DNA test for family research or someone else spilling the beans much later which then leads to devastation. He might accept it but let that be on his terms. Fucking horrible not knowing and finding out later or wasting his life with someone who will divorce him anyway later.
If you fail to intervene, whatever bad things happen to him as a result, you are directly responsible for allowing to happen, and are complicit in. When he finds out eventually with or without you, he is going to sue her pants off,, and when it comes to light you were complicit you could he held criminally liable as an accomplice. You are legally obligated to spill the beans.
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She fucked up.
Time to put her under her own responsibility and she should own it up.
Your daughters husband ought to know. He doesn't deserve not knowing the truth.
Poor bastard. He married a dumb whore and will pay for it for the rest of his life.
Either she tells him exactly what happened and not make excuses about it or try to beat around the bush or you tell him
A mistake can be forgiven. I lie to cover up a mistake will destroy everyone involved. She should probably be the one to tell him; but if she doesn't you should. The truth will eventually come out. 23 and Me is infidelity exposing.
Absolutely, he shouldn’t have to raise someone else’s kid nor be with her if she’s not committed to him
You should tell him but I don't think he will leave her
Give her an ultimatum either she tells him or leave him if she does neither you tell him
Tell him the truth its not fair he take care of the baby
Absolutely, say something.
Yes, the poor guy needs to know the truth.
Don't tell him that he never accept it
So he should raise and take care of a child that’s not his?
If it is good for everyone
No, no man should ever deserve to be lied to that the child that he loves and cherished is not his. She should go to the man that got her pregnant. I honestly curious you really think this is ok?
I am thinking more practically and you don't need to agree with me it's ok
Wow that’s crazy thanks for the “insight”
It’s not good for him and you are not thinking what’s best for everyone as it’s not good for him. AND he will find out either from a DNA test for family research or someone else spilling the beans much later which then leads to devastation. He might accept it but let that be on his terms. Fucking horrible not knowing and finding out later or wasting his life with someone who will divorce him anyway later.
I anyone here with an ethical character will know whose advice to GOOD and whose advice is bad and should be ignored.
It's better if it came from her well anyways.
as I always say women dont deserve loyalty
um... yes!!!
Get ready for a sticky divorce
Its not his role, she should tell him.
Disown the whore
If you fail to intervene, whatever bad things happen to him as a result, you are directly responsible for allowing to happen, and are complicit in. When he finds out eventually with or without you, he is going to sue her pants off,, and when it comes to light you were complicit you could he held criminally liable as an accomplice. You are legally obligated to spill the beans.
It’s your duty