I would say the same thing if a wife slaps her husband for that same reason. She would also be a poor child that can't keep her hands to herself, that can't function like an adult.
i feel like that wld only worsen the situation, u shldn't tease someone who's already been aggravated enough to hit u
@siseñor I would actually make myself very loud enough for everyone to hear. My neighborhood is full of people all the time (a very busy place), the police station is about 10 mins away and if there is a big commotion, they would notice immediately. Then he gets exposed (both in public and in fb) and jailed. Overall I live in a good, secured zone.If there is something I don't like is if I were having a partner controlling what I talk by using physical force. I've never seen that in my family. This is my stance: If I'm not physically harming you and it's only words, then you have no rights hitting me. Same thing vice-versa.
i was just saying my first priority wld b for them to calm down, i wldn't want them to get angrier. then obvia i'd get cops. they wldn't b controlling what u say, u wld b protecting urself. idek.
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No... he never hit me
I guess that was his way of saying that you can't say that about his mom. I don't agree with him using violence tho. Now you need to show him that what he did isn't acceptable. For example you could go live with friends/family for weeks & tell him it's because of what he did. If he's a momma's boy then he's going to listen to her about everything & not to you. Combine that with her not liking you and it doesn't sound good at all.
If someone told you your mom is bitch would you be happy 😆
Exactly. Adults already have the ability to communicate, not revert back to 1st graders that hit whenever someone says something they don't like. The OP's husband is a loser. On another previous post, the OP said he cheated while she was pregnant.Looks like the guy's mother is a bitch after all, for raising a cheater and an abuser.
Exactly. That's how it should be. It's normal to get upset if your partner insults your mother and don't like it. However, hitting isn't acceptable nor normal on a relationship nor marriage.
There is no excuse for hitting your wife or any woman for that matter. I've had my ex punching and beating my chest before, you just stand there and take it till she's finished with her tantrum and then take her in the bedroom and do her roughly from behind, although for her that was just a reward for acting out.
I doubt it's the fact she said bitch
@Twalli I was going through her post and apparently she has issues with him and he had previously cheated too. Example:He cheated on me while I was pregnant? ↗First it's cheating and now it's abuse. Yeah it sounds like he used the ''she called my mom a bitch'' as an excuse and his abusive side came out.
Hitting isn't ever ok in a marriage. That's his wife, not a random stranger. Just like his mother is his family, so is she.
@Danielle93: Two wrongs definitely don't make it right but she definitely crossed a major line by insulting the woman who gave life to her man.
That's why we have mouths we can use, not hands and fists.
He couldn't said to her ''Look, I don't like the way you referred my mom as, don't do it again.
@Danielle93 we know Hispanic no so cool beats women now. Lets hope women stay away from him before they lose teeth or he rapes them.
Don't you mean "son of a bitch".
@Twalli I was trying to easy on her...
That wasn't just someone. That's his wife, a family member. If he wouldn't hit his mother for saying bad word, then the wife should be treated the same, like family.
@Danielle93 it's not the bad word that caused the slap. It's the blatant disrespect to someone he loves.
Yet ironically slapping his wife was also blatant disrespect for another one he loves. I've heard countless stories of a man's mother treating his wife like garbage (even insulting her right in his face) and he holds back. He still wouldn't his his mother but he sure has no problems (doesn't have the same self-control) hitting his wife, a family member.
If you look at her previous posts, this guy ain't right. He cheated and no he hits her. Those two things already are grounds for a divorce.
@Danielle93 didn't say he's a good guy, but calling a guys mom a bitch isn't an okay thing in any situation
He should've communicated with his mouth and said ''look that wasn't nice, lets talk''. Hitting a partner isn't ever acceptable. He's lucky she hasn't filed assault charges on him because I would have. I believe the same too vice-versa. If a boyfriend or future husband call my mother a bitch, yes I would get upset but hitting him wouldn't be acceptable either. With the exception of real self-defense, hitting in a relationship or marriage isn't ever okay.
Oh, wait. I read that incorrectly. HE hit you?I swear, I need glasses. 😐
Everyone PLEASE downvote my comment.
I hope the OP says no because otherwise she would be a hypocrite. If it were me, I would simply use my mouth and my answer would vary. If I got time and it's my day off say that wasn't nice and if he has a problem with my mother, then both can sit down, talk on the table and work it out. If I'm busy or heading to work, say ''We'll talk about this later''.
Hopefully she hits him back with divorce papers.
and assault charges
I had a baby and his mom keep taking about my weight. I tried to talk to him about it but was being sensitive and protecting his mother. I called her bitch... he got so angry
She called you fat, basicallyFrom the baby weight you put on, and haven't taken off yet
He's a manchild to me. If he hit for that reason then he can hit for other reasons too whenever he doesn't get his way, like a pathetic little 6 year-old kid would do.
Was it ok for him to hit her
Obv not. Also wasn't ok for her to say what she said
Right. we all know both wasn't ok but, the point is, what was the argument about. did she have a right to say it to her
We don’t need to know what the argument was about. They are married, that should be private.
But she's saying she called his mom a bitch, and then he hit her.. what was the argument about. Did the wife have a right to tell her that the mom's a bitchKeep in mind, trump called a lot of people, a lot of things, and he never said why he did it
@ItsMeItsMe1989 We all knew that the reason he did it was because he was a narcissistic egomaniacal snowflake.
Actually we don'tAnd why the QA chose something other than my answer as MHO, is because she's a biased cuck
No one deserves to get hit in a relationship nor marriage. Not acceptable nor normal. In addition, a different previous post stated he cheated on her while she was pregnant. So he's a cheater and now hits her.Even if what she said was uncalled, that's his wife (a family member), not some random stranger he can hit whenever a bad word is said.
She said your mom is bitch so she deserve that. If she pregnant it’s so wrong to hit but he can only brokeup🥲
''oh Boo a-hoo a-hoo a-hoo, my wife insulted my mother''Honestly, I would continue mocking and making fun of a guy for doing that if I were that girl. I will not shut up just because he thinks that was too much. Any manchild that thinks he can just hit me just because I insulted his mother or said something bad is worth laughing at. The fact that he can react so easily over words, lol. That ain't a man. That's a kid, a 6 year-old child to me. lol
Because you are not a man. It’s your mom she should respect your mom because she is old lady she said bad words she should apologise to her. If she didn’t fuck her and divorce she deserve that. No One Can Replace Mother. If you are agree with your girlfriend you both 7 years old
Also, imagine your man told you that your mom she is bitch? What would you do ! 🥲
I would talk it out like normal adults do. I would ask why he said that and have him sort out his differences with my mother on a table, in a civilized manner.
What if she says them again, then hitting her every single time she says bad words is the answer? If so then you're excusing violence in a relationship/marriage?I'm sorry but why should I apologize for getting hit? Unless I physically attack you and was causing bodily harm, I don't deserve getting hit for words, no matter how bad they are. The moment you hit, you've already close negotiations and your apology isn't coming, none.
The moment you hit, you lost. That shows me you can't handle conflict and nope, a real man or woman doesn't hit the person they marry (and promised to love and protect) just because bad words were said.If he hit for that reason then what's to say he won't hit her for other major reasons in the near future?
She should respect. And she would not getting hit it’s simple. If she said every day bad words to his mom she deserve that 🤷🏻♀️ this words it’s hurt her feelings as you getting hurt
If she said bad words often about his mother and he continues hitting her then why is he still with someone he wants to hit? Shouldn't he leave her at that point?The fact that they got kids makes it worse. The poor kids will grow up thinking it's right hitting your partner every single time they said offensive words, that it's right hitting people for words.
Wtf she said bitch it’s strong words that hurt shame on her ok no one treated like that if someone told me bitch i will hit shame on you supporting her for telling her bad words both them wrong ok she should not say this and he should no hit her only divorce her it’s clear
Since you think hitting someone for words is ok, I'll switch things around:If the guy's mother would've called his wife (a loved one) a bitch, would it be ok for him to slap his mother?
You don’t understand me. I said the wife she should not to say bitch to his mom. She should respect her because she is old. And the man will not slap her ok. If she doesn’t want to respect his mom she should move on.
He can’t slap his mom’s. He can move on to other apartment with his wife but she still his mom no matter what she should be patient to his mom she is old lady she can ignore her it’s simple.
So he can hit anyone but his mother? Ok gotcha. I will now agree to disagree with you. My stance still remains the same, you can't hit your family and to me a wife is a family too.
You didn’t understand what am i say 😅😅😅. I said that she can not say bad words to his mom and he can not slap his wife that’s all respect each other is it clear?