Is it a Red Flag 🚩 if a woman has not been in a real relationship since high school or college? (Page 2)
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I'd have to find out more about her life.
Has she travelled, studied to a higher level, is she sorting her career?
I hope the answer is yes to some if not all of those questions. If so maybe we can all grab a coffee after work?
A relationship like what you're seeking is only accidentally stumbled upon in life. One rarely finds it if you are actively looking for one. Red flag? Nah. Just haven't stumbled over that person yet, that's all.
No, not at all. I'm interested in someone who's wanting a committed relationship, not someone who has had a ton of experience. So if you just weren't ready can I completely understand that. I was in a similar situation for many years myself.
No not really. Might be weird only in the sense that they are too independent or that they may have poor communication skills
I would take that to mean she's just been about that hoe life
Whoa 😳 no
Just saying that's how I would take it if a girl volunteered that info rather than me asking. Not having a relationship doesn't equal not having sex or having fun
Of she is 45 then yes. If she is like 26 than maybe not. Dating is a crap show right now. So can you blame her?
Depends what she's doing in the meantime. If she hasn't been in a relationship because she's living the "single life" having sex with people, party, etc, then that's going to be a big problem. So yeah, that's a red flag.
Oh nope Just school and working on an old house in family friends couple of dates here and there but nothing to concrete
Okay well it's still technically a red flag, it just means the red flag didn't turn out to be that big a problem. Fewer partners and less experience would be better. So ideally there was no relationships even in high school and college and no dates in between, but the situation you've describe is better than a lot of alternatives.
Wasting your life waiting for perfection. Just jump. You're allowed to do it more than once.
Yes. I will consider it a Red flag when he or she is already in college and has never been in a relationship
I had a boyfriend in college but when I lost my mother he wasn’t very supportive. And I just kind of got myself back on track. Not that I haven’t been dating but I’ve been just taking time out for myself
It is if the cause is mental illness, otherwise no.
The person who matches you the most and feels like your best friend is the one you should be with.
Trust your heart.
It will know.
Nah I wouldn't say so. Finding relationships used to be like walking on eggshells. Now it's like walking around landmines.
It really depends on how and why. If she's just been riding the cock carousel then yeah--big red flag!
No sir
Then no probs.
No. A relationship should be enjoyable but how do you want to enjoy something you don't have desire for. I guess everyone has such a phase.
I want the same; but for the reasons you talk about, I am single and have never kissed or been in a relationship.
Depends, if it's due to late blooming and she wasn't ready, but she is now, it's cool. If it's because she is crazy, we see it and that's why we don't hang much around her.
Not a red flag at all. I think we would actually vibe pretty well
Not really, unless she was heavy into casual sex. Not interested in that kind of person.
In this modern age of anti-social media, what is ""Real""?
Unfortunately, I'm 49 years too old for you. Otherwise, I'd have given you my address.