Can a woman be a guys best friend?

[Anonymous]

Ok, I have a dilemma. I have been a kinda fuck Buddy with this guy. However, I noticed this other woman at work and he and she are pretty close. So I added one and one and stopped seeing the guy. He gets upset and asks why I won't meet him. Ok told him to go ask to this other girl instead, he then asks how I could say such a thing, that she is his best friend.

Realllllllllly,? Ok guys, can she possibly just be a friend,? Cmon'... this guy thinks I was born yesterday. I'm getting vibes that they used to be... something. I dunno, maybe am twisted, but she always mentions him to me as if I make her insecure, or she will massage him infront of me...", I'm his secret lover" she knows nothing, but she's touchy touchy with him. And he says they're best friends🙄😒🤔😤

[horsenrhinounicorn]

The massage part sounds like something more. Men and women can be best friends, but when men and women are best friends they do not make physical contact with each other with the exception of a quick hug or handshake to avoid being more than a friend. Boundaries are in place so they don’t cross into those grey areas.

[Asker]

Yes, yes, and yes, that's what I thought too. Being touchy touchy is MORE than friendship.

[boggboss]

Yes women can be but if your just fuck buddies I don't see why u would feel the need to stop not like u are in a relationship with him no?

[Asker]

I just don't wanna be side chick

[boggboss]

Yet u decided to be a fuck buddy😑 clearly your priority is too be a main

[spartan55]

Apparently you don't understand the concept of a fuck buddy.

[Asker]

Yeah I know... fuck buddies can fuck as many as they like right? but when I broke up from him, he wouldn't take no for an answer and started pestering me suddenly.

[spartan55]

No, no, no... you stopped seeing him because you thought he was doing whatever with that woman. THEN he started pestering you..

[Anonymous]

"Ok guys, can she possibly just be a friend?"

They can, but you don't want to hear that.

Anyway, you dumped him, it's over, move on.

[nawtee_me]

Do you have guy friends? If so then why can't he have a female friend?

[Anonymous]

You're not his girlfriend, just a fuckbuddy, so who cares?

[Asker]

But I don't wanna share him😒

[Opinion Owner]

That's why a guy has a girlfriend so they don't cheat. Fuck buddies are not exclusive.

[Booboo210]

Lol
He wants to fuck you both

[Asker]

Hmmm my thoughts precisely.

[modeve]

Your concern is not baseless.

[Jmmmfi4]

Its definitely not possible

[In_Trance]

Never

[Asker]

That's what I thought too.