There’s usually spots of downtime when I’m cooking. I just rinse whatever I don’t need and put it in the dishwasher while cooking. Washing larger items. Then whatever is left is a short wash as soon as I’m done eating. Makes life easier.
For anything in the oven. When possible, I make ample use of parchment paper and aluminum foil. Makes that cleanup real quick.
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He's doing the dishes (good for him) but not on your time frame.
Suggestion: Do the dishes with him at the time you want. Do that a couple times, and reward him by saying how much you appreciate him doing the dishes, and pointing out how clean the kitchen is. He should get the idea, and start doing the dishes himself at your desired times. If not, you'll have to live with it and emphasize his better characteristics and habits.
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we both pitch in, she cooks I take care of cleaning up, I cook she takes care of cleaning up, it is just what you do.
You are not his servant, you are a team, it is time he puts on his big boy pants and helps out more.
If it really bothers you you really need to talk about it, otherwise it will never fix itself.
Sometimes it is the little things that bother you the most.I always do the dishes after my wife cooks. She does the dishes when I cook as well. We never wait for the next day. When we get takeout I always make a big deal by saying I will do the dishes while I throw all the pizza boxes and stuff into the trash.
In my relationship with my ex wife I had issues with the dishes... She kept throwing them at me... lol No really she did. I would come in from work and have to duck or get hit... At the time she had thyroid problems and didn't know it and the hormonal imbalance had her all over the place emotionally...
No I guess this is one of the reasons why being single is awesome. I hate cooking but I don’t mind doing dishes or cleaning in general so I’d be the perfect match for you haha. If I were you I’d just cook for myself at that point.
Have you shared this concern with him? Are you holding up your end of the relationship?
Try using disposable dishes like paper plates, etc. and throw them away after.
Sounds familiar. Get a dish washer such that you both may live in harmony. He'll probably fill and empty it because it's a machine. It's a boy thing.
I wouldn't know about that, maybe it is because I have this contraption in my kitchen called a dishwasher. So I never have dirty dishes.
🤣Who has a bigger brain between the two of you?
I hazard a guess _that_ is what is irritating youWhat does he so for a job
and what do you do for a jobIts a womans job to cook and clean.
You do it that is love
he is a lazy bastard who will never change
Have you told any of this to your boyfriend yet?
Does he need more from you? Just askin.
Because that's a girls job
THAT'S A WOMAN'S JOB
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