Is it boring for you if your partner says "I love you" like every day?

[Anonymous]

[TruthBringer]

Yes. Even if your actions back those words, saying these words more than necessary will lead to them being taken for granted.

I've been in a previous relationship where she would tell me she loves me often, but her actions don't always match those words. We said it to each other asif it was a chore... In my current relationship, we don't say it often to each other because it has to remain special. At the same time we focus more on actions than words. We both know we love each other because our actions prove it.

[Anonymous]

I've said, I love you, every morning for 25yrs to my bride, followed by a kiss on her cheek as I leave for work. She's usually asleep but it's important that I do it because it could be the last chance I have to do it. Live everyday like it's your last.

[Asker]

nice explain there, thank you, may you both always doing well😇

[Sirenboobzilla]

Not at all. It's those little things that make it special for me.
The I love you's
Kisses on the hands, cheeks and neck
Putting his hand on my waist when he walks by
Little smacks on the butt, or boob grabs as he walks by
Blowing kisses from across the room

I never feel unloved or unwanted there

[SweetDumplings]

No I don't think it's boring I think that's a beautiful healthy relationship, I wish that would happen for meeeee lol

[Asker]

and i really hope your wish is come true! 😇

[SweetDumplings]

Ahhhhh omg thank you^^ you're so pretty and nice 💜

[Asker]

me too thank you☺️, i like your profil pic it's very cute 🤍

[SweetDumplings]

Thank you so much, I love your profile pic too it's beautiful^^

[Asker]

🤗🤍

[AmandaYVR]

Yeah saying it that much dilutes the meaning in my opinion.

[Y2KxD]

Found the western whore

[BestD4u]

Is someone telling you they love you boring to hear? How bout hearing them tell you you're beautiful?
Here's a question you may need to self reflect on.. sticking to the latter being told you're beautiful ok?

Does it make a difference to you if a stranger, maybe that cute coworker tells you that you're beautiful?

For me, I fe deep so merely the word "love" itself holds nonerit to what my heart feels... I catch myself saying I love you because of my heart filled so abundantly I almost have to say or express myself to my significant other or I will literally die! Ok, no more melodramatics... but hopefully you understand.

Now flip side.. are you saying I love you to them? Maybe it's created an insecurity from what they may view is a lack of yours?

I really believe in love languages. Have you learned what yours are? What about your person, have you learned theirs?

And does it really make a difference if someone loves you so much they want you to know it?

Is saying I love you such a chore it's now redundant to now be boring?

I believe in being the moment not just in it... I will have conversations with my significant other and before I realize it I'm reminding them that I see their beauty by telling them "you're beautiful".

Knowing someone feels they want to say I love you has got to feel amazing.. being able to tell your person you live them is just as amazing... isn't it?

[t-8900]

It's the one thing is want to hear leave her lips more than anything else. When we wake up together, before work, before bed. I know that what I'm working for is love and who I'm working to bey best for loves me as much as I love her. I want us to be each other's universe! 💕🥰

[Asker]

ok thats very sweet 😂

[t-8900]

I'm a hopeless romantic I can't help myself 😩 current year people don't appreciate my type I seems

[t-8900]

*it seems

[Asker]

really? hm.. but i'm sure your partner will understand about this despite what other people say

[t-8900]

if she exists (still looking lol)... *sobs* haha

[Asker]

oh ok😅 i hope you met the right one soon ☺️ *pat shoulder*

[t-8900]

hopefully within the next 6 years otherwise I might have problems fulfilling my dreams of fatherhood. I'm holding strong and haven't given up just yet.

[Asker]

ok best wishes for you😇

[t-8900]

thanks dear! ^^

[HawkPerception]

My girlfriend and I say "I love you" more than twice a day, every day and we've been doing this for 3 years straight. Anyone who says "It loses it's meaning" has no clue what they're talking about and they don't really love their partner. They just like new or fresh experiences.

[kyleelyn199723]

Nope. Me and my man say “I love you” many times a day. If one of us ever passes away, there will be many I love yous that the living partner will remember , and I think that’s very important

[The_Maphio]

Let's just say that those are important words, and as for any other word uttered too constantly, it loses its significance. It'll always be nice to hear, but it won't make your heart flutter anymore in about a week.

[petitedollbabee]

My partner tells me he loves me every few hours. I like it, it helps to reassure me that I’m still loved. It doesn’t get old or stale or lose its meaning.

[RobT312]

No. ... and it never gets old. We do that and a kiss every day

[Lucy68]

I would love to have a partner like that. I'm normally the one that says I love you everyday and every night

[lilyanony1]

No it's nice. I say it to my family members when I talk to them on the phone its part of my language when talking to them

[DaveJord]

Depends at what piont in the relationship you are. Like less than 3 to 4 months... yeah. After marriage... no.

[Jaximus-Lion]

Been doing that for 12 years, not bored yet. It pisses off so many people and they think we are pretending. No my problem.

[ItsMeElliana]

Never. That's one of the things I need everyday. to keep me going
it makes my day

[TommyMountainFigure]

Nope, not at all. I'd rather she said it every day than never!

[LonewolfMeme]

Nope. We say it everyday and honestly I feel closer to him.

[HighValue]

If it is all the time it would lose its impact/value.

[Blackcupcake]

I’d never get bored of anything he says if I love him lol

[Aethereal]

Not to me. We say it to each other multiple times a day, and we've been together almost two years. At this point, I'd be concerned if she didn't say it.

[ad_237]

Initially, I felt the same. My girlfriend had the habit of saying 'I love you' everytime after ending the call and I was way too shy too say it. I also felt that this would eventually lose the value of the phrase between us. However, now after 3 years, I have become comfortable speaking it and we both say it everytime after our call. Now if one of us doesn't say it, then it is an indication that he/she is mad about something and you need to fix it haha.

[soccerchick4eva]

If you find it boring then maybe either you don't believe they mean it or you just don't feel the same? I think it's sweet if it's naturally said and if that is everyday thing then so be it haha :)

[HellGeist]

No. If they stop saying that I start to lose interest because I feel they have lost interest.

[FTnWo]

How about every five minutes... my wife constantly saying it sometimes one right after the other.

[Anonymous]

No. I love to hear it since my love language is words of affirmation.

[laurcar34]

No way! I love to be told I'm loved. (Of course, if he doesn't act as if he loves me to go along with it it's no good.)

[Ironic_Method]

Nope. I want to hear it for as long as she means it.

[Neosporin]

Well as long as it’s heartfelt then I don’t think so but I don’t know

[MJtheCoach]

It’s not boring it’s unnecessary any sentence you always say and use it tends to lose its meaning.
Show it don’t see it.

[Cowboy6666]

Nothing wrong with that.
I will appreciate it in fact. If a girl says I love to me, and flirts with me all day.

[Dnice1]

No it always touches my heart hearing those words ❤

[jasco]

No more often than not tho i usually just hug her everyday

[Lisa_97]

once a day is fine but too much yes... because after a while it will feel just as normal words

[dreamstar72]

We say it all the time.
At night time before going to bed we are try to see who can say it the longest.

[howhigh420]

No its not boring for me i love being told everyday iam loved it feels amazing

[RedStiletto88]

Not at all, I love it and say the same to him every day!

[najekim]

Nope. Wife and I say to each other numerous times during the day.

[Steve1071]

Never.
You may never get to hear it again so always say it every day.

[Jcrummy98]

It's not boring to me. I love it when she say I love you to me.

[Laura456]

Yeah because then it seems like it’s said out of routine, the way a friend says I love you.

[glitteringgingersnap]

Aw no that wouldn’t be boring to me! I’d love to have a boyfriend that says “I love you” everyday, think that would be so sweet and heartwarming 🥺

[Baredog69]

It's not boring but I think it cheapens the phrase. Save it for the most special times show it the rest of the time.

[girlygirl2034]

Well it does get kind of boring after a while but it also makes me feel good to hear him say so. But honestly I prefer sex

[Guanfei]

I could hear it 50 times a day, and I would still love it.
I mean, last time I heard that was when I was 19, and she was lying. I have a lot to catch on.

[Zygum]

I feel love for my girlfriend, when she always say, I LOVE YOU

[SmilesAintAgirl14]

well, I would definitely feel loved. it should be normal to be told "I love you" every day. It's a normal thing to say, it's a normal thing to hear. I would never get bored.

[RHK36]

Only if she doesn't mean it, otherwise I love to hear it.

[hi_it_is_me123]

It would not be boring to me. I actually would like it and be happy.

[bestfriend69]

I think it's good. I read an article that a kiss before work lead to better marriages. It brings people closer.

[Soleil7001]

It had to be a girl asking.
Do the two of you have matching cerebral head sizes? Are you both cisgender?

[Minahh]

Yes. I'd appreciate much more if he showed me that instead of repeating himself like a broken radio. Words without actions mean nothing to me.

[ChrisMaster69]

No it’s not, it’s lovely

[Luopio27]

No for me but then again, everyone has their own preference.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope not at all, i will show her that i love her too everyday!

[Anonymous]

Questions like this make me second guess about if women mean it when they say guys should show emotion or open up.

[bunnycluts]

nope. my heart would flutter every time

[Cubus]

I don't have a partner

[Asker]

how about imagining it first?

[Cubus]

I believe it would be really sweet if it was natural.

[Asker]

*giggle* yes it is..😌

[Joshua0213]

Yes everyone morning before I leave for work cause could be the last time I see her

[Joshua0213]

No* c

[007kingifrit]

it can become dull. it doesn't HAVE to be said every day

[Pillarofhell]

Put it this way... would any writer have the protagonist of a novel say it every day?

[dustybiker]

When it’s meant you feel it.

[shades777]

depends on how you say it, also you clearly dont love him