Is it boring for you if your partner says "I love you" like every day?
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Yes. Even if your actions back those words, saying these words more than necessary will lead to them being taken for granted.
I've been in a previous relationship where she would tell me she loves me often, but her actions don't always match those words. We said it to each other asif it was a chore... In my current relationship, we don't say it often to each other because it has to remain special. At the same time we focus more on actions than words. We both know we love each other because our actions prove it.
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I've said, I love you, every morning for 25yrs to my bride, followed by a kiss on her cheek as I leave for work. She's usually asleep but it's important that I do it because it could be the last chance I have to do it. Live everyday like it's your last.
Not at all. It's those little things that make it special for me.
The I love you's
Kisses on the hands, cheeks and neck
Putting his hand on my waist when he walks by
Little smacks on the butt, or boob grabs as he walks by
Blowing kisses from across the room
I never feel unloved or unwanted there
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No I don't think it's boring I think that's a beautiful healthy relationship, I wish that would happen for meeeee lol
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Yeah saying it that much dilutes the meaning in my opinion.
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Is someone telling you they love you boring to hear? How bout hearing them tell you you're beautiful?
Here's a question you may need to self reflect on.. sticking to the latter being told you're beautiful ok?
Does it make a difference to you if a stranger, maybe that cute coworker tells you that you're beautiful?
For me, I fe deep so merely the word "love" itself holds nonerit to what my heart feels... I catch myself saying I love you because of my heart filled so abundantly I almost have to say or express myself to my significant other or I will literally die! Ok, no more melodramatics... but hopefully you understand.
Now flip side.. are you saying I love you to them? Maybe it's created an insecurity from what they may view is a lack of yours?
I really believe in love languages. Have you learned what yours are? What about your person, have you learned theirs?
And does it really make a difference if someone loves you so much they want you to know it?
Is saying I love you such a chore it's now redundant to now be boring?
I believe in being the moment not just in it... I will have conversations with my significant other and before I realize it I'm reminding them that I see their beauty by telling them "you're beautiful".
Knowing someone feels they want to say I love you has got to feel amazing.. being able to tell your person you live them is just as amazing... isn't it? -
It's the one thing is want to hear leave her lips more than anything else. When we wake up together, before work, before bed. I know that what I'm working for is love and who I'm working to bey best for loves me as much as I love her. I want us to be each other's universe! 💕🥰
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My girlfriend and I say "I love you" more than twice a day, every day and we've been doing this for 3 years straight. Anyone who says "It loses it's meaning" has no clue what they're talking about and they don't really love their partner. They just like new or fresh experiences.
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Nope. Me and my man say “I love you” many times a day. If one of us ever passes away, there will be many I love yous that the living partner will remember , and I think that’s very important
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Let's just say that those are important words, and as for any other word uttered too constantly, it loses its significance. It'll always be nice to hear, but it won't make your heart flutter anymore in about a week.
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My partner tells me he loves me every few hours. I like it, it helps to reassure me that I’m still loved. It doesn’t get old or stale or lose its meaning.
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No. ... and it never gets old. We do that and a kiss every day
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I would love to have a partner like that. I'm normally the one that says I love you everyday and every night
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No it's nice. I say it to my family members when I talk to them on the phone its part of my language when talking to them
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Depends at what piont in the relationship you are. Like less than 3 to 4 months... yeah. After marriage... no.
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Been doing that for 12 years, not bored yet. It pisses off so many people and they think we are pretending. No my problem.
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Never. That's one of the things I need everyday. to keep me going
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Nope, not at all. I'd rather she said it every day than never!
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Nope. We say it everyday and honestly I feel closer to him.
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If it is all the time it would lose its impact/value.
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I’d never get bored of anything he says if I love him lol
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Not to me. We say it to each other multiple times a day, and we've been together almost two years. At this point, I'd be concerned if she didn't say it.
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Initially, I felt the same. My girlfriend had the habit of saying 'I love you' everytime after ending the call and I was way too shy too say it. I also felt that this would eventually lose the value of the phrase between us. However, now after 3 years, I have become comfortable speaking it and we both say it everytime after our call. Now if one of us doesn't say it, then it is an indication that he/she is mad about something and you need to fix it haha.
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No. If they stop saying that I start to lose interest because I feel they have lost interest.
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