What is your favorite thing to do with a SO that's NOT sexual in nature?

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I really had to specify. Some of you are terrible about this lol.  For me cuddling under the stars near a bonfire and talking would be like heaven on earth for me.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Out door activities, hiking, swimming. In the summer go into the mountains and ride ATV's together, camping.

Watching the stars is great in the mountains away from the city lights, you can see so many of them.

For more close to home things, I have a gazebo in my backyard, built a firepit next to it.

Can build a fire, sacrifice marshmallows to the campfire god since I tend to just burn them.

Vacations are always great too.

The #1 best thing I love to do is cuddle under my Gazebo in a rainstorm and listen to the raindrops pound on the tin roof.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Talking about life. When he's focused and actually listening he can be a great conversationalist.
If he's high, distracted, or not interested in what I'm saying, then it's infuriating trying to talk to him about anything, even short informational sentences. He'll literally repeat the exact same thing back to me as his thought, or he'll ask me something I just said.
But when he's focused on conversation I like analyzing life with him.

p043k3j · Answer

Sitting in front of a Lake in the mountains or at the beach, watch the sunset as we hold each other snuggled up in a blanket.
If there’s a bonfire, then that’s even better ! There’s something about listening to the wood crack as it burns, the smell of the wood is also intoxicating, I love it. Drinking coffee or hot chocolate. Talk about life and our future together. Or just looking into each other’s eyes, the eyes are the windows to our souls and sometimes there’s no need for words really.
Spending the night outdoors under the stars, then waking up to a beautiful sunrise 🌅 ❤️

lilyanony1 · Answer

The best times in my relationship in the past was when we actually spent time together.
I remember he would sit playing bus PlayStation whilst I either read magazines or chatted to friends on WhatsApp, was drawing or just chilling.
Sometimes it's nice to be so comfortable with someone that you can just be yourself in their presence.
When we first got together I didn't mind that we had different interests especially because I was able to invite him to join in on some of those things, but he really disrespected me, insulting them and then excluding me from the things he was doing.
I loved him very much but in the end whatever respect we had for one another in the beginning was lost.

I think what I described above is normal in a relationship ie just being yourself with each other.
If you can't have that there's nothing really to build on.

ItsMeElliana · Answer

basically, just spending time with him, getting his love and attention, sleeping with him, my heart just feels so good when he's with me... my eyes are tearing up while typing this
because i dont ever wanna lose him
he means so much to me and I love him so much, the thought of him leaving hurts my heart and i struggle to breathe. I know this is bad but dshdwjkddjakx

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

Cuddling on the couch and binge watching something we both like… There is just something innately “naughty” about right as the episode ends, and you BOTH realize it’s 2:00am, but you just kinda look at each other, as the timer to “Next Episode” quickly counts down, then you smile and simultaneously say “one more?” Then laugh at how silly all this Tiger King BS is!

TruthBringer · Answer

Outdoor activities such as 8ball pool, swimming, going to the gym together, TRAVEL, going to the mall and a lot more

Indoor we watch movies together, play games together, have deep conversations, spend holidays together and with family, etc.

You know, the usual

katiesmuff · Answer

For starters he is my most favorite golf partner and even lets me drive the cart sometimes. LOL
Another thing is after the younger kids are in bed we grab a bottle of wine proceed out back sitting in the dark sipping wine and just talking about our day.

DonkeyDan · Answer

I really enjoy either cooking together or maybe a long walk in the countryside hand in hand.

exitseven · Answer

I dated somebody like that. We did a lot of outdoorsy type stuff like camping and hiking. We would often share a sleeping bag. Once we took an overnight canoe trip on the Arkansas River. We did have some fun times.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Play pool, listen to music, watch tv, play baseball, dance around the house, exercise

MissStrawberry912 · Answer

SO MANY. But to name one of them is adventuring away together just the two of you, like a trip, building new memories and experiencing your “first” together to explore a new place… or nature 🥰

misunderstoodhoe · Answer

not something that couples do often but i wanna go on a river date w my soulmate a body of sparkly clean water in the forest w pretty fishes, old sculptures/ statues, plants, lily pads, flowers in it
the water temperature is perfectly lukewarm w the chirping of birds while we skinny dip together admiring each others presence while we talk and play till the sunset
ugh how badly i want this to happen!!!

bobalife · Answer

being in each other arms, starring into his eyes, listening to his thoughts and deep breathing, and having him do the same... anywhere.

kyleelyn199723 · Answer

Cook together. Me and my man have our own little traditional where we both cook a meal together, we eat a can of black olives while cooking and then eat. Such an original weird tradition we have, but it’s great

Twalli · Answer

Just cuddling on the couch or my bed. Probably a date, but that could be because we haven't been able to be on one since March 2020.

HighValue · Answer

Playing board games with her like Catan, Stratego, Armadora, Carcassonne, and other similar ones.

sage2021 · Answer

I would have to say driving around in the car, listening to rock music from the 70's and singing along and laughing. Holding hands in the car and having great conversations and joking around.

euniece090 · Answer

Playing sports, I love when their competitive side comes out. Sports like tennis, basketball, volleyball or soccer. It's not that romantic, but it definitely a bonding exercise.

KrisPW · Answer

Camping, sitting around a fire with friends or alone, just so relaxing.

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

Movie marathon. Just snuggling together in bed for the day watching movie after movie.

lightbulb27 · Answer

hard to pick one, sometimes I really enjoy a good head beating massage. I got one the other night from my girlfriend, combined with an electric massager applied to my head, and it was heavenly. And yes, I'm talking about the thing ontop my body.

Kkstarzz96 · Answer

I enjoy talking. I've had conversations with boyfriends that are priceless to me.

Diodoro · Answer

Laying in bed together talking, as the sun peaks through the window

AngelMegumin · Answer

We do language challenges, speaking foreign languages for a whole day. Fun.

user1516 · Answer

Fun stuff not everything has to be about sexual things.

lilaccc · Answer

my fav is when i was feeling down, he started to hug me from behind and i hugged him back, then he rubbed my head and kiss my forehead and said words that could make my heart calm.

Minahh · Answer

Cuddling definitely but also I like it when he challenges me intellectually. Doesn't matter whether it's a good book or idea.

AnggieGirl · Answer

Never had it! I tried with past partners but they just want sex. I’d love to experience a relationship where they wanted other things too

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

Board or card games, cook, play video games, watch a movie, run errands together, snuggle and just talk comics or anime or our imagination. Just about anything

najekim · Answer

Get into the car and road trip anywhere. See the sights.

Jesuswasahue · Answer

Literally nothing, Dad only made women and took a rib from me in order to use woMEN for your sexual pleasure, if you are enjoying them for any other reason you don't know my daddy.

scott04sa22 · Answer

I send flowers to my ex when I was dating her but she wasn’t very satisfied them because she wanted my whole paycheck and wanted me send it out to her 😂

Petermorgan34 · Answer

Fuck, I wish I could tell you, Its time for a change

jshm2 · Answer

Sparring.  Seriously she gets to box me in a ring once a month. She very good too.

pass_the_celery98 · Answer

Although I don't have a significant other, I would say going to Disneyland in LA or something.

Becky316 · Answer

I love sitting on the couch and having him asleep on my lap. I like to watch him sleep!

melisaaa · Answer

Ice skating together (this is my one of a wish), traveling to another country, driving motorcycle, drinking and being drunk together.

imfreeze95 · Answer

I am alone I have no one but working on a book together or doing something artistic sounds good

KingofCups · Answer

It's really fun to swim with someone you're into, the ocean, the laguna, a river, even a pool. Suoer bueno tiempo. Especially at night.

all_hayl · Answer

Bottle of wine next to fire by the ocean.

Account · Answer

Exchanging ideas on various topics.

TrueConfection · Answer

We enjoy going out to breakfast a lot.

MJtheCoach · Answer

With C0ViD jabs around I keep my distance from people now.

Belmontandwilson · Answer

Getting drunk or doing narcotics. I love the freedom that we get. I feel that we’re closer than ever. It’s the same with good friends

Hannahbananaaaaa · Answer

Running, though I like doing that with just about anyone

Fatwaffles24 · Answer

Hanging out with her and cuddling or just sitting in silence in eachothers company.

jahaims · Answer

Play games or hangout with our kids

loves2learn · Answer

We like to Flowride together. :)

Subarugirl · Answer

Make breakfast together

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

Netflix and chill, travel, hiking, swimming, beach

msc545 · Answer

We love to read to each other.

Purplemonkey242 · Answer

Dancing, holding each other, doing something fun

Belgie · Answer

Play with my nephews and niece.

pink_and_inlove · Answer

Cuddling for sure

Agape93 · Answer

Camping

Starwitch23 · Answer

To eat together and doing any stuff together.

Luopio27 · Answer

Watch northern lights.

Dnice1 · Answer

Cuddling and Snuggling together

Phoenix98 · Answer

Cuddling.

Joshua0213 · Answer

Just being with her tbh

JohnQue · Answer

Cuddle watching a movie

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