Why are victims of sexual abuse treated like crazy difficult people when they try to vent and not in a crazy aggressive way in a normal chill way?

[daejahdabree]

[Robertfootball]

Because a lot of women have used it to gain sympathy and attention. I’ve met SO many women who openly came out and told me about their sexual abuse, and I never even asked and they did it within the first two weeks I knew them. Those same women turned out to play a lot of mind games. So now when I hear a girl talk about sexual abuse my bs meter goes up.

[daejahdabree]

Okay, does that make it right? aren't you the one being over sensitive for getting angry with someone whose acting out due to a trauma thats far worse than the inconvience your experiencing from them causing a little bit of trouble? They should stop acting out but that doesn't make a rude and uncaring response especially in general ok warrente or accepted

[daejahdabree]

And the women who play "mind games" like you said, toxic behavior from them is a problem and more than a minor inconvience but that doesn't mean treating them all in a cold way is OK thats a selfish anti sjw a$$hole mentality and very immature and does not belong in civlized society this isn't about politics or social issues this is a human problem

[Anonymous]

I mostly see this coming from men too. It's definitely a sense of insecurity and discomfort and generally just not knowing how to act and control their thoughts. I can't stand seeing it but sadly it doesn't seem lile like it'll change anytime soon. I mean from someone can hear a victim tell their story and instead of their first words being something consoling its judgmental (what were you wearing?, Were you drinking? Etc) I would definitely say we're still far from seeing change:/

[daejahdabree]

Gee I wonder why abuse victims are so angry

[emperor90]

Because people are insensitive they should be respectful

[FunkyMonkee]

Thankfully, I've never had to deal with that!

[CuriousMufuxka]

Because they usually act that way. Act.

[Anonymous]

Are they?