Feeling like I'm a full person, as for me, I didn't feel that way ever before.
I'd always felt like a failure in some area. I'd be lonely without her as what I was doing most of my life, was trying to fill a void and feeling inadequate. For once in my life I found a good girlfriend/relationship that works in all facets. Took a long time to get there.
There's lots of best parts. I went outside my culture, so I'm enjoying amazing food I didn't know existed. Got to snuggle up last night and relax, that was so good. Plan and go on trips together, support day to day. There's a rhythm to life.
When you find a women you work well with, enjoy her and what she can bring to your life.
Yeah dude, wanting a relationship is great. When you find the right person you know it because you want to spend all of your time with them !
For me it was a toss up between just spending time and having another person to trust. Having someone who I can actually depend on if I need to is huge for me since I can be so self-reliant (to a fault sometimes) but I have to say just having someone to share life with, big or small, is such a gift that I will cherish :•)
I think you're over romanticizing it lol but just having someone "on your team" for life is very nice.
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All the things you wrote are great. Everything related to the person you are in love with makes you elated.
Relationships can be good or they can destroy you so it's important to be sure you are not in it because you feel lonely. Never look for someone to complete you but to add good to your life. Being your best friend, your passionate lover and your unique soulmate.
I just think the mutual and genuine love and affection is the best part.
Trust. Without a doubt trust because without trust and stability the foundation of the relationship will be weak. Cuddling is great, human contact is great, FEELING like someone cares for you is fantastic. However, you know how to take any sentiment out of the other options? The authenticity of all the other choices are now impractical. Sex isn’t just sex with someone you love deeply, it’s love and if you have doubts over someone’s loyalty you’re not able to love them as fully as you’d like. You’re holding back because you’re afraid they’re not being honest with you, or you question the legitimacy of their love in the first place. Cuddling with someone you can't trust is withdrawn, still nice but not the same when ends have been left open. Buying gifts… should NEVER be the best part of any true legitimate relationship so no. Definitely a plus though not end all be all by any means. Affection and spending time with someone you feel isn’t being faithful can be torturous and stress you out even further about the lack of trust bringing the relationship down further. Falling in love is great, but sometimes it’s best to spare those feelings when diving head first into something with some one who you might suspect not be loyal from the get. I wish I could go back in time like many people to avoid that “feeling of love” because love without loyalty is just fake love. Alexa play fake love by drake 🥲
The sex goes without saying. But beyond that, I love her cute, feminine nature; going places and doing things together; watching her unaffected, uninhibited reactions; her curiosity and love of life; her honesty and tenderness; her smile; her eyes; holding hands, wrapping our arms around each other and snuggling close; building shared memories. I love that she feels safe and secure when she is with me. I love that she trusts me.
Yes, I am a romantic.
None of the above. I'm about ready to give up on mine. He hates me and I'm sick of living this way. Everything is always my fault. He could fall out of bed and STILL MANAGE TO MAKE IT MY FAULT.
It's when he tells you how much he loves you and cares about you. And not even just telling you, when he shows you in his actions. When he does little things for you, like buy you gifts, or make you a drawing (in my case because he's an artist). I think those are the best parts. Don't get your hopes up too high, though. You never know how he may turn out. Just be careful, sis :)
Feeling Loved and valued and appreciated. Cuddling by a warm fire under the blankets and candle lit dinners. Even as a rather horny guy the sex comes after all that in my list of priorities though ofc its still there (duh).
Seems like youve gotten answers from people that are in hate based relationships, and love based relationships.
And... a lot inbetween.
Sadly, im stuck in the same boat as you, being that i really dont know much of what to be looking for. Personally id think the biggest part is trust, over all else, as trust leads to literally anything else. However, i have the feeling some pleople shall happily disagree with me ;P
The mind reading. Reaching that point is pretty great. When you know what the other person wants, and how they feel, before they say it.
In the end, after all the hot sex and the rest of it, and when the initial blast of being in love has worn off a bit, just spending time with your best friend is the best part of this, at least for me. I've had that in the past, but not for a long time now. I no longer trust women because for the most part they cannot be trusted. I miss the times when I was with someone I could love and trust and not be afraid of.
I have no idea. Even after 4 relationships and an attempted 5th I’ve never felt anything good about relationships. Only suffocation, absolutely zero independence, and constant drama and emotional games. If that’s what a relationship is supposed to be than I hope to never have one. If it’s not what a relationship is supposed to be than I guess I’m too content being single, independent and self sufficient to even attempt to have another relationship. 🤷🏻♂️
None of the above, its having a partner, a person who has your back. A team working towards a goal together.
I would say all of the above but life is a marathon. There are lot of days that lets face it, really suck out loud. It is nice to have somebody who gives a shit about you when these days happen.
I feel like they’re not as good as you think they are.
All of the above plus so much more ❤
All of the above.
I can't pick one.
Actually feeling loved and cared for by someone
cause u get to spend quality time
Love
fall in love :D
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