What would you do if your partner builds a house without your knowledge and moves in with another woman?

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Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

Personally, I'd be thankful they showed their true colors, so I didn't waste any more time with the wrong person... If someone constantly has to go behind your back to do something, don't just walk away, run... Because that's someone who has no respect for you or your feelings, it's all about themselves.

MariZra · Accepted Answer

Well of we are married that "other woman" Automatically doesn't have any right to stay there. As a wife I could kick her out easily. Unless he give her house as a gift... Then would do nothing but wish them good luck in their future, turn my back and leave.

Luopio27 · Accepted Answer

I can imagine a woman going to a club and sneaking into toilet to cheat but can't imagine her every morning kissing hubby good day and heading off to a construction site to build an entire house on her own, starting with a showel.

Honestly its easier to leave the relationship for good.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

I'd probably start looking for a new partner.

aWes0MeNeSs · Answer

Bye bye! 👋 No question about it!

ohshee · Answer

I would be knocking at the door but you might have for the rent because they used to have my money to build that house so half of that house would be mine equals half of the rent would be mine and I just raise the rent at another thousand dollars sorry about that

Gorge95 · Answer

You know exactly what to do. The question has been answered…By the question itself:(moving in with another woman =You’re excluded which further indicates that you’re no longer in the picture). Move on.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Well i’m building my own house and lets just say he won't be getting in the door ever again once i find out that he's hoeing around with some other hoe

Citizenkirk · Answer

Partnership over. I can't imagine all this happening without my knowledge. I stay engaged with those I share a bed with. Emotional and physical engagement, that is.

kikkiemon · Answer

I would trade in my old picker for a new one that worked so that won't happen again! And possibility hiring an attorney if i was supporting that person, so they used my support to save enough extra to do that as it must have been enough years to earn and save to have passed that states requirement of common law marriage or its equivalent opening a door for a civil law suite...

OpenClose · Answer

Builds a house, easily. I mean exchanging the other woman for another man in this scenario. If she moves in with another woman, I'd just ask that she invite me over regularly ;)

NumberOneStunna · Answer

If you stay with him you’ll regret it. Even if he’s not physically cheating with this woman, this situation is still really bad. This woman is more important to him than you are. He clearly has no interest in buildings a future with you and you’re wasting your time. Find a guy who wants a future with you. The sooner the better.

Agape93 · Answer

She can get her crap out of my house, and I'm getting tested. If I'm good, fine, she can go about her life. If she gave me something, she's going to have a very serious problem on her hands.

Macie_Lynne · Answer

Honestly if you sign this waver, or what ever it’s called, when you get married then if they cheat and they get caught then you get a reaping reward or some like that. And by reaping reward, I think you get all of y’all belongings or most.

exitseven · Answer

If I was married to this person I would hire an attorney and see if there is some way I could get half the house since it would be community property.

Киттйлинк · Answer

Awful of course. Who would feel otherwise? Even if you didn’t love the person it’s still feels betrayed

TazzyRazzy13 · Answer

Dump them and move on. That is beyond messed up. Unless you're in a poly relationship and agreed upon. Otherwise, not cool.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

To hell with him and his house, he doesn't deserves you at all and if he can be punished, than do it and never have mercy on him!

Without mentioning that god will punish him too since cheating on a spouse is a sin!

henryallen · Answer

Just burn the house down. Preferably the guy she chose with it.

pixie215 · Answer

there was this story long ago about a wrestler lex lugar that was doing this. its f*cked up

TrueConfection · Answer

That would be tough to hide. I'd make him sell it and I'd divorce him.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'll take the basement and build a second dungeon...

magiusX26 · Answer

how imaginary you want to take this? because unless we getting real imaginary, my "partner" can't do shit without me knowing since its my hand.

bowenw · Answer

Speak to a lawyer. You may be eligible for half of the house and all his other assets in a divorce.

thomas472 · Answer

Sounds like a scenario from The Sims video game : D

Explorer91 · Answer

…. well you can’t really do anything. It’s over the relationship. Cry and move on.

Amy10223 · Answer

Well, that certainly would be time for me to move on with my life and find someone else.

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

I'd become Bob the Builder and knock that shit down. Duh.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I must have been really dumb… to not know. what will I do…? Never get into such stupid mess.

globetrotter22 · Answer

That’s quite a huge and crazy feat to pull off without your partner knowing. Did your boyfriend actually do this?

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Where does she builds the house , lol its fine will join them one will cook food one will clean the house it will just be like the 70s 😂

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Hahaha I don't know but it would be illegal as hell

Mangospacho · Answer

Well, he should get a very very stern warning. And he should be told this isn’t grounds for breakup but if he ever, ever builds another house without her knowledge again then the relationship is over.

jshm2 · Answer

That's what we in the industry call "being a politician"

Anonymous · Answer

You guys fucked up See the look on his face

CapreceIsSaved · Answer

Move on and hopefully I'm with Jesus... so I can not worry about baggage that was always baggage. Especially if they decide to do that.

ragooo8 · Answer

If they are married she owns half but other than that nothing she can do. She could technically move in as it's half her house

GlassTop · Answer

He’s not your partner. You were simply his sex friend. You were never his plan A. So you should move on.

rahmann · Answer

Such a funny question. How about yours, as a woman would you feel good?

whosnumber1 · Answer

if they pulled that off and you had no idea I would say you probably weren't that involved enough to be with that person in the first place

JohnK123 · Answer

I think u would know if your partner kept leaving and was building a fricking house

Guido · Answer

File for divorce and that house would be community property so I would fight for half of her half. Teach the Bitch a lesson.

Emzyyy01 · Answer

I would not confront him. I will just quietly pack my belongings and then leave. This is assuming you aren't legally married and are just bf-gf that are cohabitating.

Ehjoh1 · Answer

Have a threesome with the two girls and then burn the place down if they refuse to be my sex slaves.

Fukaroo · Answer

I'd murder my partner and realize I don't need a partner.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Unless it's his sister or his mum, he's dead to me.

DamnSam · Answer

I'd probably go to a fiskars salesman and would ask what the splitaxe can't split...

driven159 · Answer

that would suck but I think they could do all of that under my nose and I would not know it but that means bye bye to them and move on

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Well he's not my partner then is he

Anonymous · Answer

I think I would decide I was too dumb to live and top myself.

Anonymous · Answer

They would simply not be my partner if they did that.

zagor · Answer

Well my cousin built a house with his partner and then she kicked him out and kept it.

Wise4myage · Answer

That would really suck balls, what could anyone do unless you were married.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol women make the nice guys finish last, while submitting themselves to assholes. When you respect the guy who doesn’t care about you. This is exactly what will happen!

Surely · Answer

If you are married. It is still half yours in some states’

Jamie05rhs · Answer

How would you not know? You would know if they're away all the time and not with you.

RoseJ123 · Answer

That would be pretty crazy. They would have a lot of explaining to do!

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

Ask myself why I'm so stupid, because I'd have to be blind as a bat to miss all of those red flags.

cookiecrusher · Answer

Move on with my life, upload a "looking for an arsonist" ad on craigslist etc. You know, the usual

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Id think i was getting the best surprise gift ever. A new house and a second girlfriend! What luck.

Jackba57 · Answer

She’s not my partner. At least she doesn’t think so.

ManHater · Answer

Divorce and take the house for half. What else do you do? HAHAHA

Ryfyle · Answer

Holy shit, that's a whole lot of shit to go through.

Strsightanswers · Answer

Send her a “Welcome To Your New Home” card and be thankful that he is someone else’s problem. You can do better!

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