What would you do if your partner builds a house without your knowledge and moves in with another woman?

[Chikky]

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Personally, I'd be thankful they showed their true colors, so I didn't waste any more time with the wrong person... If someone constantly has to go behind your back to do something, don't just walk away, run... Because that's someone who has no respect for you or your feelings, it's all about themselves.

[MariZra]

Well of we are married that "other woman" Automatically doesn't have any right to stay there. As a wife I could kick her out easily. Unless he give her house as a gift... Then would do nothing but wish them good luck in their future, turn my back and leave.

[Luopio27]

I can imagine a woman going to a club and sneaking into toilet to cheat but can't imagine her every morning kissing hubby good day and heading off to a construction site to build an entire house on her own, starting with a showel.


Honestly its easier to leave the relationship for good.

[OlderAndWiser]

I'd probably start looking for a new partner.

[MariZra]

Believe me that's the last thing I need right now as I completely lost trust in people

[MariZra]

Oooh sorry wrong answer on wrong question 🤦‍♀️🤣

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Bye bye! 👋 No question about it!

[ohshee]

I would be knocking at the door but you might have for the rent because they used to have my money to build that house so half of that house would be mine equals half of the rent would be mine and I just raise the rent at another thousand dollars sorry about that

[Gorge95]

You know exactly what to do. The question has been answered…By the question itself:(moving in with another woman =You’re excluded which further indicates that you’re no longer in the picture). Move on.

[DizzyDesii]

Well i’m building my own house and lets just say he won't be getting in the door ever again once i find out that he's hoeing around with some other hoe

[Citizenkirk]

Partnership over. I can't imagine all this happening without my knowledge. I stay engaged with those I share a bed with. Emotional and physical engagement, that is.

[kikkiemon]

I would trade in my old picker for a new one that worked so that won't happen again! And possibility hiring an attorney if i was supporting that person, so they used my support to save enough extra to do that as it must have been enough years to earn and save to have passed that states requirement of common law marriage or its equivalent opening a door for a civil law suite...

[OpenClose]

Builds a house, easily.

I mean exchanging the other woman for another man in this scenario. If she moves in with another woman, I'd just ask that she invite me over regularly ;)

[NumberOneStunna]

If you stay with him you’ll regret it. Even if he’s not physically cheating with this woman, this situation is still really bad. This woman is more important to him than you are. He clearly has no interest in buildings a future with you and you’re wasting your time. Find a guy who wants a future with you. The sooner the better.

[Agape93]

She can get her crap out of my house, and I'm getting tested. If I'm good, fine, she can go about her life. If she gave me something, she's going to have a very serious problem on her hands.

[Macie_Lynne]

Honestly if you sign this waver, or what ever it’s called, when you get married then if they cheat and they get caught then you get a reaping reward or some like that. And by reaping reward, I think you get all of y’all belongings or most.

[msc545]

no - wishful thinking.

[yofuknutz]

I think what the young person is talking about is a community property state the problem is to get a lawyer for that it's very complicated

[Macie_Lynne]

Hehe whoops, but yeah what they said.

[yofuknutz]

Your confusion is only natural divorce is unnatural

[exitseven]

If I was married to this person I would hire an attorney and see if there is some way I could get half the house since it would be community property.

[Киттйлинк]

Awful of course. Who would feel otherwise? Even if you didn’t love the person it’s still feels betrayed

[TazzyRazzy13]

Dump them and move on. That is beyond messed up. Unless you're in a poly relationship and agreed upon. Otherwise, not cool.

[TonyMetal___86]

To hell with him and his house, he doesn't deserves you at all and if he can be punished, than do it and never have mercy on him!

Without mentioning that god will punish him too since cheating on a spouse is a sin!

[henryallen]

Just burn the house down. Preferably the guy she chose with it.

[pixie215]

there was this story long ago about a wrestler lex lugar that was doing this.
its f*cked up

[TrueConfection]

That would be tough to hide. I'd make him sell it and I'd divorce him.

[NathanDavis]

I'll take the basement and build a second dungeon...

[dustybiker]

Love it.

[NathanDavis]

@dustybiker lol... this time, with even more room...

[magiusX26]

how imaginary you want to take this? because unless we getting real imaginary, my "partner" can't do shit without me knowing since its my hand.

[bowenw]

Speak to a lawyer. You may be eligible for half of the house and all his other assets in a divorce.