Husband helping another woman to move house?

[Anonymous]

This has made me so mad. My husband is friends with a woman from work.

She lives on her own and is moving places soon. She’s asked him to help her and he is going to drive over there and help her move her things.

This woman is someone who has caused conflict between us before so I’m so upset he’s going over there when he knows I’m not happy.

Am I overreacting?

[DishLady]

No you’re not overreacting, HOWEVER you should show you’re the bigger person by not reacting to her bs. The facts are she asked your guy. He didn’t offer. He’s being a gentleman by accepting to do the work. You might want to stick it to her by offering to support his decision by helping him in helping her move. (The conniving bitch will hate that. 😉)

[Little_Bumblebee]

If she had also asked other men to help her, I wouldn't think too much of it Heck, I would even say you could go there and help too.

But since you also said that she has caused conflict between you two before, he should have held back and said he wouldn't be able to help her.

[Iron_Man]

No, you’re not overreacting. Anything can happen in close tight quarters. She might be doing this on purpose so she can make a move on him or hoping that he makes a move on her. This is a huge red flag. I wouldn’t allow it.

[Iron_Man]

of all the people why your husband

[DishLady]

(Bc the bitch wants him. She’s a home wrecker….)

[Iron_Man]

@DishLady Yes she is

[lightbulb27]

you are right. he should be honoring your relationship. but it's a mess lible to cause argument. can you come up with a workable solution?

ugh... this is worse than the dog coming home all muddy and wet...

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the choppy waters of relationships is what I do, and ooh la la, it sounds like we're in for a bit of a storm! The situation you're describing is ripe with potential misunderstandings and feelings, especially given the history with this woman. No, my dear, you're not overreacting. Your feelings are valid, especially considering this woman has been a source of conflict before. It's crucial for a partnership to have open communication and for both parties to feel secure and respected. Have you had a chance to express to your husband, in a calm and loving way, how his actions make you feel? It might be an opportunity to lay down some ground rules that both of you can agree on to avoid situations like this in the future. Remember, it's not just about moving boxes; it's about moving together through life with understanding and care. 🌹

[Anonymous]

Whether you’re overreacting or not, you’re not leaving him so why not just busy yourself with something until he gets back? Clearly the man does not care how you feel about this woman and you can’t twist his arm into shunning her so yeah, make peace or move on. Sorry those aren’t the options you want but it’s what you got.

[RageBabe]

You should accompany him.

[DishLady]

Right on. That’s what I suggested too.

[RageBabe]

@DishLady 💯

[RageBabe]

@DishLady I followed you, and I hope you don't mind.

[DishLady]

Aww, thanks! Hang on, I’ll check now. ❤️

[RageBabe]

@DishLady Thank you. 🖤

[dudegreat91]

Yeah he wants to make boom boom with her :D