Ex husband wants to come in my new place?

[Anonymous]

What is he trying to see? I want him to drop off his daughter and luck her up , but last Friday he was snooping around my door trying to see something. I pay close to a grand where I live. Why is he interested in coming in my place? He has a wife and I don't need him in my place.

[Fireguy17]

No clue, but just tell him politely no thanks an meet him in a neutral location.
Otherwise he will need to use the bathroom or some other lame excuse.

[Asker]

I told him via text that I have company coming over at the time he drops our daughter off and he couldn't tarry

[Asker]

He could always meet me outside of my apartment- I'll tell him my company is indoors showering

[Asker]

May have to go this route just confused

[Fireguy17]

It's tough, but outside would be best, and if he says he has to go to the can just poit him down the street say good night/afternoon/morning turn and walk away.
You are not responsible for his feelings.
Tell him flat out that having him inside your apartment for any reason is just not going to happen.
What's the worst that could happen, he marries you again and divorces you again?
He is an ex, you have moved on and this is your private space that you control, not him.
Good luck.

[Asker]

He's an arse I swear lol

[Wise4myage]

Maybe he is just curious or nosy? But ask him if he keeps doing it.

[spartan55]

Luck her up? What does that mean?

[Asker]

Meant to say pick her up

[Anonymous]

Get a restraining order if need be.