I can't believe you need validation on something so obvious, but YES it is controlling. I believe it is disrespectful to you as well. What I mean by that is he says you can wear those kind of clothes 'when he is with you', which is bullshit. That is sending the message that he doesn't trust you, and you are so helpless you can't tell some dude 'no' who hits on you. I'd just laugh at him and wear whatever you want anyway.
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Yes, it's controlling and a red flag. It's your body to dress however you please.
If you are wearing something like this, it's completely fine. But anything more than this, is really just trashy.
Having said that, no guy has right to tell you what to wear and if you are comfortable you can wear anything that you want. Your comfort is all that should matter.
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Yes, it's controling to tell others what they can or cannot wear. However... That's what relationships are. People that try to condition eachother in an effort to be able to work togeather. It doesn't really matter what's behind his reasoning, weather it's trust issues or low selfasteem. What matters if how you resolve the issue and how that makes both of you feel.
To me, having become a bit older, this particular issue though certainly annoying is a rather small thing to blow up to this proportions.I would say he is controlling though i have a doubt: you say you "feel pampered" when you wear they low crop. Who is "pampering" you?
Nope, you should make sure you have the same morals, values and goals before going into a relationship. The only reason to wear revealing clothing is for attention.
Sort of. The real question is weather it's a reasonable request.
yes, plus they're insecure
Yeah thats controlling
yeah, it is a lot.
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