Is it fair my boyfriend won’t let me put stuff in his storage unit unless I pay?

[Anonymous]

So a few months ago my boyfriend said he was going to rent a storage unit to store some things, and asked if I wanted to go in on it with him and split the cost, and I declined as I didn’t have a need.

well I asked him the other day if I can store some stuff there because he has the space, and he said only if I chip in towards the rent.

it’s literally costing him the exact same whether I chip in or not so do you think he’s being unreasonable?

[MTC29]

Unless we know what it is that you want to store in his unit- information conveniently omitted, it's hard to say.

If you want to keep a few boxes in there, no issues. If you want to store an office desk or spare furniture, he should see a few $$$.

[blackgaletiger]

100% and he told you before and you declined. So if you are asking him now then the answer shouldn't have changed. Yes you 2 are girlfriend/boyfriend but are not bounded financially so neither or should abuse that. If you need the space he rented then its 'equal' to share the cost as well as the space.

[KatieB713]

No, I think if you didn't have much than you shouldn't have to pay half but definitely put something in would be the right thing to do as you are using his storage unit

[Midnight_Kiss]

Of course it's fair, why should you get to store your stuff for free?

[IMuser]

His reasoning is as follows: today you will ask to store some stuff in it. Later, you may have to store much more stuff and the storage unit which he paid for would become your storage unit without you putting any money in. To prevent this from happening, he is literally saying you no.

[Anonymous]

You declined sharing the cost in the first place.

Split the cost or get your own.

THAT'S WHAT'S FAIR!

[Opinion Owner]

Besides, it doesn't make any difference what advice we provide. You're not going to follow it. Your going to continue to berate and browbeat him and make his life a living hell over it until he gives in and you get your way. It's what women do. I'll bet you'll withhold sex, fold your arms and pout too.

[Anonymous]

You refused to go half on the storage before he got it. So now that he bought the storage, he is automatically the villain if he says no to you using it. Why don’t you just offer payment since you want to use it now?

[FilmGuy93]

That sounds reasonable to me... You aren't adding extra cost by storing your stuff, but you are using extraspace that he set aside for himself.

[admles]

Lol you 100% did this deliberately

You want the convenience of the storage but don’t want to chip in so you just waited until he went ahead and then asked to use it.

It’s totally fair.

[Anonymous]

Why would it cost the same if you’re chipping in? Isn’t that the opposite of what that means?

[OddBeMe]

Seems litigious. He’s an asshole.

[GlassTop]

Beta simp 😂

[OddBeMe]

Betas get all the pussy.

[GlassTop]

You may be right

[OddBeMe]

@GlassTop girls don’t want bad boys. They want the sensitive feminists.

[HighValue]

He is right.

[jimmy2]

If he won't tgen is faith in you is false

[In_Trance]

yes it is