He says he doesn't want to hurt me...

[Anonymous]

Thing is, we liked each other about 1-2 months ago and he broke things off. Recently, he confessed he didn't mean any of the things he said when he broke things off, but just always gets to a point where he should ask a girl out but instead freaks and breaks things off. He also confessed he likes me and never stopped liking me. BUT he says he doesn't want to like me because he doesn't want to hurt me again. What do I do? I still like him and definitely want a relationship.

[xo-c-rae-ox]

i agree with wannabe

haha sorry great name.

erm yeh there are some boys who just say that because they dnt no wot they want so they say stuff 2 keep you leading on

but in ur case I very much doubt that.

im sorta in the sme position as you, and I no. it sucks

this lad asked me out then finished wid me not even 24hours later. he sed after that he didn't mean it and he rlly liked me but he didn't want 2 hurt me or anything.

after a while I spoke 2 him and admitted that I rlly lyked him, not knowin wot he'd say back

but I found out that the reason why he didn't want 2 be in a relationship was because he had problems of his own which he didn't want 2 drag me into.

i duno how that helps you, but you neva no. there cud be more to his story than you think.

no 1 can stop there feelings for other ppl, so open up 2 him and try and see his side of the story

gd luck xx

[Reeses-pieces777]

well at least he's honest. he is probably young, not willing to committ, wants to keep you so that when his heart is broken he can come back to you, if you think he's worthy of any investment of your time, go ahead, but think about it this way, the second time, you'll hurt way more if it doesn't wok, he has to work to have you, he has to like you for real. it's great you like him, but he needs to prove to you he's worth your time/ energy/ love etc. ;*)

[wannabe]

sounds like he's been hurt in the past and hurt someone else before of him ebing so sacred of commiting into relationship, talk to him about it, ask him to open up