Men, how do you know your girlfriend or wife isn't in it for the financial benefits of yours? (Page 2)
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Because we earned a good chunk of our wealth together. On top of that, it’s understood in my household that I’m the breadwinner. I don’t want my wife to ever make a decision between work and our children when we have kids. She inputs in other ways that I can’t. I’m better at making our money make more money. I don’t hoard wealth… I personally like to share it. That includes my wife.
You just know. Currently my girlfriend is in university and I help her financially because I love her it's only natural to help your partner. She doesn't ask for expensive stuff but in generally she barely ask me for me to buy her stuff. She also cooks when I'm working and she's at home which is amazing
If I’m dating her and she’s benefiting financially I’m benefitting in some way be it sexually or through support. If she’s not okay with that then I don’t have time for her. If it all goes under then worst case I paid for a prostitute.
🛑 lying to yourself or to others…All people desire what Money brings them.
If you can’t accept that then you can’t enjoy life then you guard Money over Wife and Then the Wife says🖕 and the Lawyer says, “💰 thanks, dumb🚼 💵 “
Well my future husband does pay for everything but I put in all my time and energy running our off grid property and cook and clean so I think he doesn't complain
Easy never let her know what I do for a living or how much I make if she ask either of these questions and we just met RED FLAG 🚩
if possible try to date her for 2 years at least without her knowing dating shouldn’t feel like an interview I promise it’s not that important
You can’t know. You gotta have trust left and these days trust is too difficult to put into anyone. Especially women.
Damn right. That one of these beauties really love us? Hah! That's Too good to be true.
I say men should just stop giving women what they want. All men want from women is sex and there is far more to life than sex. Companionship? Get a dog. They're far more loyal anyway.
We never pay for each other except for small things because we know if we break up then it's a loss we never get back. She's pretty smart so she saves coupons well even though both our parents are rich. When single I used to hide wealth and act poor so I they could see me instead of my paycheck.
You don't have any gold to dig for. Boy stop Cap'n 🧢
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@malwins 🤣 these dudes swear us women are going to steal money they don't have
On the bright side i am working on letting go of exactly that.
Um easy, I don't chase women, they'd have to really like me to get that far cuz I don't play that shit homie.
I’m sure security in the many forms it comes in is part of the package for women. I’m not defending gold digging whores by any means, however I also want to be with someone whose financially stable.
Because when we got together, I didn't have a pot to piss in and we've been together for 33 years
Simple. I never make anything thing of the money I have at the beginning of a relationship.
Well I was the poor one when I was dating and frankly whilst single at this point (probably forever to be honest) I still am poor in real terms
After you've been with her for a while, tell her you're flat broke and see how long she sticks around.
Because you build a relationship where you trust someone. And you verify that they are worthy of that trust.
i got a really simple trick for that: just be broke xD if you have no money, you know she's not in it for the money xD
Assume that it's true because it likely is. Women will care about your resources, that's just the fucked up way of life. But at least you can have other things they like about you, at least it's bearable when it's not purely about resources.
It's also not about how much resources they have access to in total, the money they make does not count toward satisfying that urge. Statistically, lower class women care less about money, they're just happy you have an income... but see they still need you to have an income. With wealthier women, the demands of status and income increase exponentially. The statistics show that rich women prefer not to even have men the same level of wealth as them: rich women demand richer men. The main take away is that it doesn't matter how much she makes, she will always have financial demands of you. It will always be a fundamental part of your relationship with a woman.
Unfortunately, I actually love that fact. Loving me for a reason and that is money. If I can buy loyalty and love without any doubt then I am okay with it.
Easy. I just don't give her shit. If she was in it for money, she would have left a long time ago.