Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Would you be okay with your SO getting/giving massages from/to coworkers of the opposite sex at work? (Page 3)
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
74Opinion
If it’s her occupation, then I wouldn’t mind. If it’s at a different job and she did that, I’d be very concerned about her and the trouble she’ll be in when I confront her.
Nah, that's crossing a line. Messages yes, massages NO
Hell no, I would be looking for a fight and I know my wife can kick some ass.
I seen her in a bar fight. She is badass motherfucker.
Leadfoot wouldn’t accept one, anyways. I trust him, if a random chick at work asked to give him one.
God no. Even if it’s got no link with cheating it still seems inappropriate. Physical contact should only be limited to handshakes and friendly hugs.
I won’t even be in a position to confront my SO about it. I’d be too devastated.
I’d be too skeptical. Which is why I don’t have a SO and don’t plan to
My OH is a professional massage therapist so does this all the time. It's no big deal.
I really don't like to give blanket statements so I'll just say my usual "it's a case by case basis" phrase.
I think our loyalty is pretty set. I’d ask why but not because of jealously.
This might be the unpopular opinion, but I have given and received shoulder/neck rubs/massages to and from colleagues. I can say from my perspective that it wasn’t sexual, and partners have been aware
I would say no. But if the job included pushing the muscles to the limits I could see it as legitimately helping your coworkers with their job. Something like a sport or olympic event type job. Office worker massage like the picture, hard no.
I thought of another exception. If she was strategically using her sexuality to climb the corporate ladder so she could buy me a boat for my birthday. Then yes haha.
You mentioned that they're all married, implying there's more going on than what you see on the surface.
Married or in a relationship, I'd still think it's inappropriate to give massages at work even if it involved single people cuz there's a time and place for it.. Butt yeah, seeing people I know are married to other people engage in that, it makes me wonder if their spouses would be okay with that, even if it's done "innocently"...
The question caught my attention because my boss used to massage my shoulders. It was more like she was acknowledging that I was stressed and she wanted to help me loosen up. Nothing sexual on either side.
Do you sense that there's a sexual component to what you've seen?
Whether there was or not, that's not the question for me... It's would your SO be okay with someone else massaging you or would her spouse have been okay with it?
in that case, it's a simple question. If it's sexual. Not ok. Plutonic, who cares.
Some people do
Lol i had a supervisor who did this for me at my old call center, but if she WAS my girlfriend hell no it would not be ok
No, I'm not okay with another woman touching my guy.
I wouldn't be either!
No. Work is work, not a massage parlor.
Lol right!!!
Lol!!
I think I'd be OK with it 😊
I definitely wouldn't..
I dunno I think I'd like to watch 🥰
Me too
No absolutely not... Period.
Right! I found it so weird that both times I've seen this it was at break time in front of everyone outside. The most recent, she said her husband never does that for her at home, and I'm just 🤦🏼♀️
Not really. Although it depends on the ages of those co-workers. If they were much older women I wouldn't care
I certainly wouldn't want my husband giving a massage to a woman where he works. I get very jealous when I feel our relationship is threatened.
If it's a professional. We use to have students come from the local college and get some experience.