I am sick and alone. When will my loneliness end?

[Almost_Incel]

I live in a studio apartment all by myself. Right now, I am really sick. My flu test came back negative, but my COVID test is still pending.

I have 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I hardly have any friends. I spend most of my time all alone.

Meanwhile, almost everyone I have known growing up is married, has kids, or both.

My social and romantic life is pretty much non-existent.

[megabamse]

How about you get out more, attend some type of activity that you like or would like to do that is sosial. Talk to people. Fan of gaming? Go to lan parties. Fan of boardgame? Go to a board game events. What ever it is, there is often a sosial way to do it. So the question boils down to how much work do you put into being alone vs to be sosial?

[JuanVeIasco]

At her age, her only solution would be to have money and rescue a thirtysomething or a single mother.

[Almost_Incel]

Who is "her"?

[Anonymous]

Well you're not really alone many of us guys live alone. However you need to fill your day and do activities and your hobbies. Get gym membership doing exercises can help your mood and improve your health. Go out place you like. Don't stress yourself with the girlfriend idea you will meet her in the right time. Even if you don't have one you're still can be happy

[UniquelyBasic]

For starters you have your own place which is a great start.

[Almost_Incel]

Despite having my own place, I am still all alone.

[UniquelyBasic]

Just focus on one thing at a time. You have your own place and Im assuming a job too. You should get professional help to deal with your mental state. I would start working out to build confidence both physically and mentally. Then put yourself out there maybe on a dating site.