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Is it ok for your partner to control what you can or cannot wear? (Page 2)
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Nah. They can give me their input, but I have the final say.
Same for them.
Don't get me wrong there are definitely occasions where you have to be properly dressed for and that goes for both genders but if that controlling of attire is a regular occurrence that i'd say that's a worrying sign.
I'd be okay with it to an extent yeah. I let my boyfriend pick a lot of what I wear currently. Though I buy the clothes and just let him pick what he wants to see me in that day lol
If I have a girlfriend who we love each other that is the main thing, what she wears I would not control
No. Sometimes I'll ask for his opinion, but he doesn't make the decision. I do.
No... although , You are addressed by how you dress.
After update... No... and its NOT ok for you to control otherwise either.
Then again , two who are into each other never have this problem anyways.
you choose your partner. if you're not ok with your partner, choose a different partner. that's all i can say about this.
Haha! My partner wore clean pressed clothes the entire time we were dating. I say he misrepresented himself, but he just let's me pick his clothes because it saves time. 😇
@TrueConfection yeah. That's what I mean. If you're ok with it, that's up to you. I wouldn't mind it either. But if it bothers you, you gotta make it so or break up.
If it's equal control then yeah. If both partners like to pick things they hate then it's fair to say "don't wear that anymore".
depends on what. in general; maybe. being in a relationship requires giving up some control over your life no matter what
Why should you have to give up anything?
because sharing your life with someone is SHARING your life with someone... you are going to have to make changes
I believe your partner may give his/her opinion about what you wear. But the final decision is always for the person who wears it itself. The term control is a bit grey-area.
Not really. Though my OH does express an opinion on certain things I wear
What happens when you work? You get money
What can you do with that money? Buy clothes
What type of clothes? What you like
That's up to you. Some people like to be told what to do.
Hell no it’s not ok, if someone tried to control what I wear I’d laugh in there face and drop them with the quickness
It's not ok because they are a grown adult but you the person has a responsibility to not at least look trashy not to embarrasse their man or woman.
Control it no have input absolutely, but if you have a significant other you should respect that and not dress like it
its a very bad thought in the world ever. every single person has freedom of what to do what to eat what wear, if somebody wants to snatch such kind of freedom you must keep away from him or her
It depends. If you are dressing like a 304 you are disrespecting your relationship.
If the clothes involves a fur suit in public... yes.
hell NOPE. not every day/every time.
Maybe suggest but not what you should or shouldn’t. Depends on setting.
Nope. I wouldn’t tolerate it.
Unless they say what you are wear is not appropriate or your outfit doesn’t make sense then no it is not ok
I dont even wanna see your face lol
He can have opinions, but no controling
Right answer 👍👌
Yes. I know this a controversial topic, but I do believe that your partner should have SOME say in what you wear. (And I also apply this rule to myself, obviously.)
Explain why you should have “some” say in what someone else wears?
@Breanna_nonbinary Because we're a couple, and we should care about each other's opinions.
Caring and dictating are two different things. If something your partner makes you uncomfortable then that’s on you. Essentially what you’re saying is your happiness is more important than your partner’s. If what she wears makes her happy and simultaneously makes you uncomfortable then what you think is it’s more important she sacrifice her happiness to lessen your anxiety.
@Breanna_nonbinary Both people's happiness is important, though. That's why you talk about these things and both listen to each other and both try to be accommodating.
@Jamie05rhs if you’re relying on others for you’re own happiness or self-worth or love then it’s doomed to fail before it even begins. If you depend on other to make you happy then you’ll always be disappointed and will never find happiness.
@Breanna_nonbinary I never said anything about depending on another person to make me happy.
“Both people's happiness is important, though.” You imply that one person’s happiness is dependent on the other’s actions. That if one person’s choices will cause the other person to not be happy.
Her body, her choice.
Im wearing what I want. I like showing my body
Exactly my girlfriend too, so I never stopped her or dictate her what to wear.
I do only compliment and support her.
In fact I love she wear revealing and exposing outfits publicly.
Yup I can’t do insecure men because one thing about me is this body will be seen. Thong bathing suits and all.
No it's not okay
no who would want to stay w/ someone that does that
A big NO.
The one who controls my partner is me, not vice versa.
Why is it ok to control your partner?
If you are incapable of dignity and self respect then yes.
No, it is not ok. Wear what YOU want to wear.
No that would not be ok with me
Only if they are drawing the wrong kind of attention for what they are wearing.
Yes but who are you to decide what is the “wrong type of attention”?
That's why we're partners. She'd do the same for me.
no control but input.
It's not okay for your partner to control anything
Uh... no, not okay.
Nope! Never.
Yes coz he/she loves you and care for you that's why he/she wants to control your clothes 😊
If you care then shouldn’t you care that they have the freedom to choose?
My respectful friend
if we guys love truly to someone then we want that our girlfriend is just mine no one can see her even her face that's why we control our girlfriend
Control? And where do you draw the line? Friends? Family? Job? Curfew?
My respectful friend i mean it's our feeling that our girlfriend should wear simple clothes so that other guys don't see at her with bad eyes
And yet how insecure are you in your own abilities and feelings if you must hide her sexuality from other men? Sounds more like you have trust issues.
Control should only be used by the one who is right cause if not then Hell will come.
And how exactly do you determine who is “right”? By who’s standards? 21st century standards or 18th century standards?
Partners help, not control.
No, not in my opinion. That's too controlling.
No it's not!
Hell no
Absolutely not!
Well only if you allow it but other than that no
It is not
Nope
Yeah but to a limited extent, not over the limit
No I think that should be totally up to you!!😊
With regards to this one issue both must cover there naked ness in our religion
What the fu¢k does that have anything to do with it?
Obviously no.
you knew what response you'd get when you made this post... let's be serious.
Actually no. Thus the reason I did an update.
No it’s not
Absolutely not.
I like when girls wear thongs
“control”? fuck no