Is it ok for your partner to control what you can or cannot wear? (Page 3)

[Anonymous]

You can get naked… he will end up liking it

[soe11]

Yes indeed, I like my girlfriend get nude.

[CubaPirate]

The hell nooooo

[DailyConfusion]

No absolutely not

[eagle1951]

no it's not

[ItsMaddy]

nope

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Of course not.

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

In Islam men will have every right to have a say.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

And yet in America women have the right to do what they want.

[whosnumber1]

pffff. um. no!

[RickVienna]

Yes, if its suitable

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Follow up question: who gives you power to judge what’s suitable?

[RickVienna]

My Partner 😊

[Breanna_nonbinary]

So by your logic you believe that men and women shouldn’t have equal rights. If one person has authority over the other then one person controls the others.

[krin_m]

Nope!!!

[Hyramj]

Yes no problem

[crmoore]

If it's consensual

[Breanna_nonbinary]

If one person is controlling the other, then how the f*ck is it consensual?

[Gigi2019]

No one puts a gun to your head and tells you to marry someone... At least not in America... not yet, anyway. This means that you stumbled upon this person and you initially agreed to play by your mutual rules to have a "relationship".. If you (or they) are breaking those baseline rules while making decisions within the relationship, it is not consensual. Easy. If you jumped into a relationship and immediately gave up all of your rights to the other person, why are you complaining now?

[crmoore]

Some people like being controlled, and sometimes the "control" isn't actually being controlled.

Kind of like spanking in the bedroom. Like he's not ACTUALLY hitting you, enacting violence, or issuing a punishment. But if you both like it, it's consensual and it's fine.

I've personally spoken to plenty of women who like the idea of their man choosing what they wear each day.

[crmoore]

Also, you'll have to pardon my confusion, @Gigi2019, but I'm not entirely certain what point you're making.

[Gigi2019]

I was actually talking to @Breanna_nonbinary. She made a remark about control and consent. Obviously, since my comment was not directed at you, it would make no sense to you. Mea culpa for not being clear about to whom my comment is directed.

[crmoore]

No worries

[crmoore]

And it makes sense now that I know it was directed at Breanna, lol

[Klinklins]

With limits, yes.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Who establishes those limits?

[Klinklins]

Those limit comes when you respect the relationship. Would you be happy if your man walk on street, showing his bulge?

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Again, WHO? And where is it written that in a relationship you have to do that? I seem to remember that the constitution says can wear whatever I want.

[Klinklins]

You didn't answer my question. Would you be okay if your man wear a think trouser without underwear and walk through street?

[Breanna_nonbinary]

I did t answer because I don’t have a man. However If I did it’s his decision in what to wear and if he were to decide to wear a chicken suit or a birthday suit that’s not up to me. Nor is it a reflection on me.
As far as questions not answered you didn’t answer my question first. WHO establishes the limits? As far as I know there isn’t a guidebook or stone tablet which indicates the limits of each person in the relationship.
HOWEVER, I am aware of this thing that allows me and everyone else the freedom to express themselves in whatever way they choose. AND last I checked it didn’t say anything about relationships. It’s called the 1st amendment. The limits of do not end once you’re in a relationship.

[Klinklins]

You both establish the limits. If there's no limit or zero control, I won't call it a relationship. It would be kind of busines partners.