I think it all depends on context. If it is an effort to exert control over you that woukd be a huge red flag. If it is to help you avoid an embarassing situation or something that the two of you enjoy or activeky cultivate as a part of your lives, go for it
But really you should only let someone control what you wear if you enjoy that, don't let anyone force you to dress in a way you're not comfortable with 😊
Not ok for your partner to control what you wear, but on the other hand I think having their own opinion on what you wear is ok. Also, it shouldn't get to that point to begin with if you are in a relationship you shouldn't be dressing in a way to make your partner nervous about what you are wearing by dressing like you are single while going out.
it depends, if you're dressing extremely provacatively then to some extent, it's fine. however if it's not even skimpy, then it's not ok to be so controlling.
No in general your partner isn't like your parent, they don't logically get a say on what you wear but it not hurt to at least get some feedback from them in case they just trying to help avoid getting any issues out in public.
No, it's not OK! Anyone who tries that gets a kick in the butt (figuratively speaking, ofc)! I don't understand why most women would put up with such a behaviour, it's always a precursor to fist abuse on women.
No lol, you are not telling me what to wear but you can be nice and try to convince me. And frankly I don't know if I would want to be with someone spineless enough to let me dictate what they wear unless it was some kind of kink thing for them.
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I think it all depends on context. If it is an effort to exert control over you that woukd be a huge red flag. If it is to help you avoid an embarassing situation or something that the two of you enjoy or activeky cultivate as a part of your lives, go for it
I would love my partner to control what I wear! 🥰
But really you should only let someone control what you wear if you enjoy that, don't let anyone force you to dress in a way you're not comfortable with 😊
Not ok for your partner to control what you wear, but on the other hand I think having their own opinion on what you wear is ok. Also, it shouldn't get to that point to begin with if you are in a relationship you shouldn't be dressing in a way to make your partner nervous about what you are wearing by dressing like you are single while going out.
it depends, if you're dressing extremely provacatively then to some extent, it's fine. however if it's not even skimpy, then it's not ok to be so controlling.
No it's not. A person can choose their partner, and after that they'll have to accept them for them.
I would not allow this. He or she is not my parents and even my parents gave me a ton of freedom.
Hell no just because you have a partner doesn't mean you're not still an individual. You did say partner not owner.
No in general your partner isn't like your parent, they don't logically get a say on what you wear but it not hurt to at least get some feedback from them in case they just trying to help avoid getting any issues out in public.
No , although I often get my wife to pick out my clothes for me.
My husband too! He always asks, "Ok, what am I wearing?" 😊
It depends. I'm all good with my girl having my back. But sometimes I'm gonna just do me and she's gonna have to be OK with that.
The key word is 'control' and I think it wrong for anyone being in control of any aspect of another person's adult life.
It's never OK for someone to tell you what you can and cannot wear. It could be considered a form of psychological abuse
Imagine being a grown ass person in 2022 believing something like that would be okay.
For me, it isn't. If you're really partners, one would hope you would figure out what they like to wear.
As someone else already said on here, it comes down to control. For me that's a "no go."
No, it's not OK! Anyone who tries that gets a kick in the butt (figuratively speaking, ofc)!
I don't understand why most women would put up with such a behaviour, it's always a precursor to fist abuse on women.
No lol, you are not telling me what to wear but you can be nice and try to convince me. And frankly I don't know if I would want to be with someone spineless enough to let me dictate what they wear unless it was some kind of kink thing for them.
Ehh, gfs have helped improve my style. Because i had none.
But partners are supposed to help us be our best. Obvi, too much control is bad.
It is her choice to wear what she wants to wear. If it is modest or seductive. It is her choice if she wants to go nude. It's still her choice.
It's nice sometimes but if I listened to my man I'd wear nothing but sun dresses, no bra and no panties every day.
So he like, when you wear sundress without bra and underwear?
Listening is different than controlling
Nah. They can give me their input, but I have the final say.
Same for them.