Have you ever gotten sober since entering a relationship?

[FictionalCharacter]

It’s been a month or two (probably more) since I’ve been clean. 😇

Ever since I met my boyfriend, who does not smoke or drink. I told him firsthand that I did smoke for my emotions and pain. He didn’t judge me, but I did study his personality and calming demeanor. That I did not want to influence him on taking anything. Because I did not want to change him as a person. I fell in love with him like that.

I also think about what his parents would think of me. Once he introduces me to them. I know I’ve been judged harshly from men and people when it comes to dating on someone who smokes.

So I don’t want to ruin my chances with this guy and I also want to build myself up as a person for our future together.

I also noticed since I’ve been clean. I’ve more energetic and calm. Except for me overthinking things 😅. Which have gone on full blast mode 🧠 😵‍💫.


So have you gotten clean since entering a relationship and what made you want to be clean?

[NamerOfStars]

My father's side of the family has a long and storied history of alcoholism. My mother's side's history might be even longer, but no one knows the stories, since so many of the people involved died of alcohol poisoning. Consequently, both of them were quite sparing when it came to alcohol, and they passed that on to their kids (well, to me, at least; I think my siblings are a bit freer).

But even if I've never experienced or seen it first hand, I've heard how destructive it can be, and I congratulate you for getting clean. Good job! Here's a congratulatory set of instructions to make an origami walrus:

[genericname85]

XD luckily for me, being sober is the standard. But i do reduce the amount of wanking, when i get some pussy, which is a win :D