Is anyone just focusing on their single lives like I am? Anyone think this way?

[Anonymous]

I had the opportunity to take a chance with a girl in my high school but I denied any advances she made against me. I don’t really want to be in a relationship. But I sometimes feel like I’m missing out something. That feeling stems from me being lazy at times. When I’m focused on something I completely forget about girls. Whenever I think of a relationship I don’t see the negatives and I only see the positives of it like sex. Other than that I don’t really see anything good coming from it. It has its ups and downs. Toxic fights here and there. It feels more unbearable than a typical fight with a friend. There’s just way too much reliance and responsibility and I don’t see it being worth ever. I’d much rather hookup than stay with anyone.

[WhitneySnow]

If you’re a guy I’ve noticed it’s hard to hook up unless you’re hot or popular or both

[Iron_Man]

Sometimes you have to concentrate on yourself first to improve your situation then worry about dating

[flirtatiousgirl]

Because you couldn't find true love. your feelings are dead