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I'm terrible at speaking online and my dating app profiles are just the worst. Maybe getting a match every couple weeks, which is usually a bot 😂
I'm better IRL but it's difficult meeting new people. Meeting someone who actually finds me attractive is even harder.
It's cool though, I'll find someone some day 🙂
I'm not brave enough to come out in person and hope there will be another girl who makes the hate worth it, and long distant I don't know I can maintain
You still single?
@insteadfew Yes I'll probably stay so
Forever single and alone?
@insteadfew Yes, that's better to me than being with someone I'm unhappy with or putting myself and my partner in danger. Maybe I'll find love if I ever make it to country were two girls can be openly together without hate
Ahh lesbian?
@insteadfew Yes, that's why I'm single, being gay in east Europe is not easy and online dating I think I would mess up because I'm not able to be always online
Do you masturbate?
@insteadfew Yes, it's my only orgasms at the time
Never had any sexual experience... ve it male or with female?
How often do you feel horny enough to masturbate?
@insteadfew No not yet
Never even seen a real life nude male or female?
@insteadfew I've seen people nude accidentally before females and males but only one who I was attracted to so dont know how many count
Only one female whom tou were attracted to... while others you weren't interested at all?
Seeing a naked man... was it creepy? Or you were at least somewhat curious since it was something different from yours?
@insteadfew It wasn't really anything, the same as seeing girls I'm not attracted to naked, just 'oh, a naked person'. Since by these times I already knew guy and girls are different it had no real curiousity
But it was the first ever time tou saw a fully exposed male part that's totally different from yours... you still weren't curious... in a non sexual manner?
@insteadfew No
CAN y'all PLEASE HAVE THIS ONGOING CONVERSATION IN A PRIVATE CHAT!! Thanks!
Were you ever curious enough to know and see how A male is different... and hence saw videos/picture online?
@8Bit_LYNX sorry. @insteadfew Yes, I've send pictures of a lot of women and men and I used to buy porn mags before I had internet and look at them, when I was figuring sexulaity stuff out
What do you exactly sexually dislike about male body?
@insteadfew I don't know. Just doesn't turn me on at all.
@insteadfew now you’re being disrespectful! What part of my last message didn’t you get? Stop being a creep and ask her straight up what you’re trying to convey in your cryptic ass messages bro. You’re weird. Take that shit to your inbox!
I single because being single makes life less complicated. One thing is that I am in love with someone (one sided) and he's never gonna consider me as an option. So if I get into a relationship I won't able to love that person. Therefore the best choice for me is to stay single.
Well my last major partner broke things off and my most recent attempt at partnership also didn't stick. Other than that, I'm in school, am significantly less confident than I was 5 years ago, often dispassionate about putting myself out there, don't trust myself to choose good long term partners (need to go to therapy for that, pretty sure I'm overreacting to the emotional pain). Sustaining a desire to pair feels somehow taxing, but id love yo give it another shot.
"Trust issues?" for one, yes.
The other is... well, in short, I strongly prefer a more unorthodox type of relationship, but won't bother get my hopes up due to non-traditional relationships being rare. (as far as I know)
As well as that I feel that I barely know myself, and could inadvertently 'cause "pain" to whomever I'd date.
there are 2 girls she likes me but lol she not my type😔 , why i never got my ideal type😴😴😔 and also problems my mom allowed me to have a girlfriend when i graduated from college
my mom said "you are still a kid and still dependent live with me aren't you ashamed!!"
oh damn those are very painful words he spoke in front of my big family when i was joking i have a girlfriend
I rarely find myself attracted to a woman both physically and mentally. If such a woman exists, she is also most likely already taken. In the end, I'm not motivated enough to go looking because the odds look far from great. Some people are more willing to compromise their own values just to not be alone.
I'm a 51 yo white single female.. have had a friends with benefits for 6 years. This works for me cuz I have multiple sclerosis that has progressed and I have mobility issues. I could never ask a guy to commit to me when I have this disease.
Mostly trust issues, then I have high standards, and then with the time, I realised I can be on my own without someone else. I see the hassle other people in. So yeah it's a mix of everything. I haven't closed the doors. But not everyone's gonna get passed through either.
It's been over 10 years since I've been on th dating scene. (Split 2 years ago).. I've tried dating apps and even streamed live for a bit. However, I only got pervs and scammers. Guess, I should make more of an effort to meet people but Netflix in bed is my comfort zone.
I have health issues and it does make it a bit harder for me to put sustained effort into dating, but currently, it's 100% my own fault. I have put zero effort in, and as a result have gotten zero effort out. Guys, the sky, the universe...they've done nothing to put me in the single lady position, so I can't be upset.
Most guys are just liars, cheaters, manipulators, selfish and they only wanna hook up with me, play games with me, etc. I have trust issues, resentment issues, I’m fed up. I’ve been hurt, abused in a variety of ways, lied to, cheated on, used, taken advantage of. So I’m done until I find the right person (or they find me). I care, love and trust too much and hardly anyone appreciates someone with a good heart like mine nowadays
Lots of reasons, don't really care enough not to be, can't find a girl similar enough to me whatsoever, most girls in my age range within 10 years older or younger aren't interested in me and I'm not interested in most of them, biggest reason there's too many people nowadays that lie, cheat, and get bored with the relationship easily when it gets tough
I stayed ina toxic relationship with a mental ill person.. she got better but then I turned metal ill from dealing with her bs and blowup. I ended up finding the perfect girl ex come back i was in a open relationship.. toxic ex girlfriend fucked with my mind and I fucked everything up. I should have just stayed with the new girl im currently going no connection to work on myself and helping the new girl comes back ... I never met someone so perfect and most likely never will agin
Avoiding dating during my school years certainly didn't help any.
Of course not many women seem to be interested in a guy who can't drive & lives with his parents, I'm working on those though.
Yeah I can see how some can find that as a turn off. It’s necessarily a bad thing. You’re young so a lot of guys your age are in that same predicament and still land girls.
Apparently being anti drug is a turnoff too.
Partly by choice but adding my lacking finances, ruinous range of health conditions and being unattractive
You’re young though. All those can ultimately improve. No?
Finances yeah but the others are only getting worse
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I followed you man
Literally a waste of time not to be single. Unless you have to work 12 hours a day and just want free sex every day
Haha facts bro. 🤙🏻 Gave ya a follow.
Truth be told, I was in a relationship with the mother of my kids. Broke up and have been single since. I tried being with multiple people, but they are in this what I called figuring it out stage. Some are immature and selfish and don't understand anything at all. I have recently been talking to this girl, and it was a nightmare. I'm single cause people just don't know what they want.
It’s funny but everytime I met someone that might be a potential lover they end up moving abroad; in the other hand if they don’t move abroad there’s no chemistry/ don’t have the same relationship goals.
Probably because they don't feel a connection with me, & I'm not their type. The next girl I meet will be no different.
So I just flip the bird to them all and say "To hell with them".