Found girlfriend (25f) following someone sexual (27m) but we had talks about not doing it, am I overeating here?

[Anonymous]

So not sure how I should take this and wondered if I am overreacting

We had a talk around social media a while back and we both agreed after she brought it up not to follow p*rnstars or people who are sexual as to not hurt the others feelings. She is currently away for a week on holiday with her family. She also said she didn't want to follow people she didn't know and I agreed I would do the same.

I went to use instagram today and got recommended someone she was following, called gaymisspiggy which is a public profile that does sexual content/cash*app etc. you can easily see it is if you view the profile, there were a few other accounts that look similar. I have to say she had been following a few for a while, but I mean this person posts a lot so there is no way she hasn't seen the posts. My girlfriend is also bisexual, so following sexual girl posts to me is just as bad as following males.

Should I bring this up to her and tell her I am upset while she is away? wait until I am back to bring it up? or am I overreacting? I feel as we both agreed not to and I haven't done anything like that, it's wrong

TL;DR: Both agreed to not follow sexual people/p*rnstars on insta, the app recommended me a friend my girlfriend was following, very sexual account, found a few others that are questionable, she is bisexual, so to me following a female is as bad as a male. As we both agreed not to, I feel it's wrong. Should I bring it up while she is away with family for the week as we have a call tomorrow, bring it up when she is back or leave it, how would you deal with this situation?

[HighValue]

1. Only discuss important topics in person.
2. If a couple makes agreements and one person is breaking those agreements it ruins the trust in the relationship and will ultimately lead to the end of the relationship.

[Anonymous]

It's not a good idea to confront when not face to face whatever the problem.

Although I see you have a lot more people that can make you jealous (men and women) do you really think that is a serious problem? Following on social media?

[Asker]

Yep, from my side she has guys and girls she follows. She doesn't post anything with us, her status is single and she seems to follow mostly females which are like that. That account I posted is obviously sexual in nature. I think it's disrespectful to follow people like that if you have a partner, we both agreed the same. I feel some kind of trust is lost, is that bad to say?

[Opinion Owner]

For me personally social media isn't important, but I am old-fashioned. Just tell her that her actions hurt your feelings. And if she doesn't respect that, find someone who does.

[Asker]

I think it's certainly due to body positivity, as the same time it's obvious sexualisation. The person has posts about it being 69 time, still being horny, needing to be licked etc.

[Opinion Owner]

Either way you asked and she said she wouldn't do it so talk to her when you see her. Good luck!🍀

[mollyyyy37474]

is there any moderators or whoever because i’m not able to ask questions. I deleted the app and even logged out lol.