We are discussing marriage. He said he wants a year of rest and fun as children can come between the fun. I don't want this at all. I want instant babies. This is what my friend and her husband did. They wanted fun and now that they are ready, they can't have children and had to adopt. I don't want to experience what they are going through. We've been arguing about it and it is getting serious. I have agreed to his decision but I have a silent plan to seduce him into getting me pregnant once we are married. (Any tips?) Will this be wrong or how do I convince him to tow my line?

You two don't need to get married!

You obey your man, have rest one year

Takes a year after you go off contraception

My boyfriend wants a year of fun after marriage but I want a baby at once. How do I convince him to tow my line? (Page 2)

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Emilyis Follow
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You two don't need to get married!

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- Gloree
  
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  Why?
  
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- Emilyis
  
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  because you are at opposite ends. You really need to sit down and discuss things before you EVEN Think of getting married. you two are a disaster waiting to happen.
  
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- mark000h
  
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  @Emilyis I agree. This has divorce written all over it. 2 people with different personalities and desires heading for the cliff. Might as well get a divorce attorney now.
  
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Dont babytrap the poor guy

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Zygum Follow
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You obey your man, have rest one year

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- Juxtapose
  
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  That's actually a pretty measured response for an older pakistanian dude.
  
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- Gloree
  
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  Obey? Hmn.
  
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- Zygum
  
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  Yes, dear, purpose is to save their relationship,
  
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- Gloree
  
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  Everyone is entitled to their opinion. It's not about obedience. We are not in the middle east.
  
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Why can't you do both

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Anonymous
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Takes a year after you go off contraception

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lovedejj_xo Follow
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I support your boyfriend.

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yourmancallsme Follow
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Make him not pull out

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I support your boyfriend.

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Anonymous
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Consider meeting him halfway.

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The_Uncivilised Follow
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Oh dear.

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