Is it okay or normal to ask my friends with benefits ( platonic male friend ) if I can invite my boyfriend and I to his work for coffee?

[Anonymous]

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Do you realize what friends what benefits means? Do you realize what platonic friend means?


Friends with benefits is someone who is a friend but there is sex/romance involved without commitment. Platonic friend is someone who is a friend but there is no sex involved. So which one is it? Is your friend simply platonic? Or is he getting sex?


If your friend is someone you are having sex with, you are also cheating on your boyfriend… Unless you are in a poly or open relationship. You need to get your terms figure out because this makes no sense. It sounds like a mess.

[Asker]

He's a friends with benefits but wants to keep it platonic

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Okay so you have a boyfriend and a friends with benefits? Are you in an open relationship? You are lacking a lot of context for me to even give you a good answer for your question.

[Asker]

Not an open relationship no. The friends with benefits is 24 and the boyfriend is 30... also they don't know each other but I've mentioned my boyfriend to the friends with benefits

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Okay so you’re cheating on your boyfriend? Lol… Yeah, go and introduce them! Tell your boyfriend how you’ve been cheating on him with your friends with benefits. Good luck!

[Brittanyroseee]

You are a cheater girl

[Brittanyroseee]

Oh so you are a cheater? Got it

[SlothySlob]

He's not a platonic friend if you fuck him.

[Wise4myage]

You're confused.