When you go to bed after an argument with your SO, which do you normally do?

[Anonymous]

We always cuddle still after an argument. It's a good feeling.

We sleep in separate rooms/beds

I wait till they're asleep before going to bed

We sleep together but don't cuddle

We still cuddle

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

It depends, usually we try to make up before going to bed, but not always manage to. We already sleep separately from time to time, because I'm extra sensible during sleep and sometimes need to be alone - while she's pregnant, so now she got sensible to movements too. It's not uncommon for us to go to sleep in our bed, and then I wake up and go in the other bed, if I still manage to fall asleep.

[Asker]

Congratulations! Are you excited to be a father?

[Lliam]

An argument is just an argument. We still cuddle and say we love each other before going to sleep.
After sleeping on it, we usually feel bad and apologize for getting heated the day before. Then we pick up the conversation later and discuss it calmly.
The key to any argument is to make it clear that you love each other and want each other to be happy.

[Blackcupcake]

I’m single atm but I’m not the type to keep distance unless the other person wants and asks for it… so cuddling it is lol p

[mandyfire98]

Depending on the argument. I'm turning away and don't touch me hahaha.

[NathanDavis]

cuddle up... and yes, I agree it is a very good feeling indeed

in my case, if bed time would be some time after the arguments, we would cuddle up as usual no matter what... but if the argument was closer to bed time, we would go to bed together and wait a bit then I'd still go for a spooning, never got my head chopped off... lol

[ArtemisSilver]

I'm not a big cuddler in the first place. Not in bed anyways. More of a couch and read/game or watch a show type of cuddler.

By best advice is to talk things over or at least put the argument aside and remind your partner you love them.

Also separate beds in the same room are very underrated. You can always push them together or pick one for naughty times, but two beds means no blanket issue, and you're free to toss and turn if you need to. I think I'm going to set up my next bedroom like that when I get a bigger place.

[SamIam96]

I wish I could say that we always cuddle after a fight. I'm not that mature, yet. I'm working on it, tho. I'm guilty of waiting until she's asleep and avoiding cuddling.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d try to fix the problem before bed but even if not, i still wanna pray together and lay together. Dont touch me tho

[Still-alive]

No angry sex option? Lol

jk

uh i would just kiss em goodnight still and go to sleep

[Asker]

😅😅 been there, done that

[libsaretards]

I do not let the sun set on my anger. That means when we argue, we resolve it and move on. No point in going to bed mad. If a person cannot do this, he or she is not mature enough for a relationship.

[Yucy_Gluttony]

CUDDLESTILL. You talk it out and move on; DONT LET IT STIRRRRRR

[Twalli]

We don't go to bed angry. We'll stay up all night discussing it if necessary. We cuddle regardless of the situation.

[BLP11520]

Make up or you will have a bad nights sleep!! Apologize, take the high road!!

[ThisMexicanGirk]

Not me laying in bed ignoring my husband who’s pretending to be asleep after a fight 🤣.

[RebeccaBI2000]

I always stay awake all night. They just piss me off.

[KrakenAttackin]

So much of this could be avoided by women learning a simple ohrasey, "I was wrong and I am sorry".

[Asker]

Dude just stop. That was cringe.

[jahaims]

Nothing we disagree about can't be talked out before bed.

[pass_the_celery98]

I wonder how the girl would feel if the guy elected to sleep in another room?

[Guardian45]

My policy is NOT to go to bed angry! Sometimes it takes conscious effort to do this.

[026antares_aquariiX]

Our arguments aren't that serious anyway, so we still cuddle

[Smashingdoozy]

Never go to bed without fixing the problem

[Chiarac2003]

If I’ve upset him then I need to cuddle.

[Zygum]

We cuddle before going bed

[Iron_Man]

Right now I don’t have a live-in girlfriend