Will I come off as overbearing if I ask my boyfriend tl update me on what he's doing after work?

[Anonymous]

Lately my boyfriend doesn't fill me in on what he does after work. We only see each other on weekends. I fill him in on what I do after work but he ignores it, goes silent, and later just texts good night. He stopped updating me. He's the one who told mw it would be nice for us to update each other and now he's not doing his end of the bargain. Would it be over possessive of me to ask him to keep me posted on who he is with and what he does after work?

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Yes, is there something I see giving you some reason to be insecure or do you have a surprise of some sort for him. One would almost feel like you're trying to keep tabs on but you would have to express that concern of why you need to know what he's doing after work and is this something that you ask of him like everyday as a standard?

[Anonymous]

That sounds controlling, and a lack of trust.

[Asker]

Would you dump her over this?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, if I told her to stop and she wouldn't.