Is it normal for your boyfriend/girlfriend to stalk your location after a fight?

[Anonymous]

I recently broke up with my boyfriend (we got back together after though) and I didn't want to talk to him at all because we had a huge fight. I turned off my phone after the fight and went to my friend's place. My boyfriend then got his friends to call my phone after I wouldn't pick up his calls, and he apparently found my location on snapchat in the middle of the night, and then he drove his car to my friend's house because it was on my location. It was around 1am at night. He wouldn't let me not talk to him, he said he "had" to find me. Is this normal? It's my first relationship

[mayur1598]

You look young as you said its your 1st relationship... So let me tell you something... Don't see it as your final relationship... Because you don't have any experience in relationship and how it works... And I think What you say you are into is not relationship but rather than it's a physical attraction... And your boyfriend is too much insecure and possessive... And if you stay with someone like him you will end up being unhappy and mental broken... I don't want to break your relationship or something like that... But it is true... I have seen many people in such things that didn't ended well... If he is not like that then it's your call... Be be wise and take decision rationally...
Best wishes for your future!

[Sam_The_Savage]

Lol your friend told him that your cunt is here with me... don't be stupid.

[xHoneyxBeex]

No, that's not normal or healthy. That sort of behavior would be a huge red flag to me. If someone needs their space after an argument, that should be respected. No one should be "tracking you down" or forcing you to talk to them when you aren't ready.

[mayur1598]

Yes I totally agree...

[Guccigabbana18]

Not normal in my op. He sounds like he has issues with respecting boundaries. He should've respected your opinion to be alone/with friends after your fight