Is it a good idea to avoid love in order to avoid pain?

[Anonymous]

Im hurting deep inside

[Changiis07]

No it's best to learn from it. Every relationships teaches us a lot and it hurts but sometimes that person just isn't for us and even though it's hard for us to believe it the truth is that and we can only just learn and heal. Why are you hurting?

[Asker]

about a month ago ex broke up with me because she lost interest a she said 2 years of relationship gone just like that, I know its been a month and I should move on but its really hard, I cry at nights, sad inside me since I can't show it as man, its really hard you know

[Changiis07]

Yeah but you're not alone and aren't the only man who has cried for someone they truly cared or love. A month is still new. I cried yesterday for my ex too and we have been separated about 2 years now. It just all of a sudden hit me because our relationship was good. We never argues and his family loved me. I had to delete all photos of him and block him and his whole family because we were still keeping in contact. It hurts but time does heal and you learn a lot. Plus why be with someone who doesn't want to be with you, you know. You gave it your best and someone somewhere will appreciate you trust me. Every day gets better

[Asker]

Thank you and sorry about yours too, I just have to accept the fact that people can break up with you for absolutely no reason which is sad but it is what it is.

[Changiis07]

Pretty much sometimes the time isn't right or we just aren't the one

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

It could be, but it's the same reasoning to not go out because something bad might happen - you are safe, but you also miss out the chance of stumbling into some good things.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Then you'll have no love and you will develop new kinds of pain...

[Anonymous]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/mICWFTmE440

do not date waste of time its all over the internet
women are prostitutes

[JustAnOnlineAlias]

Take a break and work on yourself bro

[jahaims]

Nope, pain is part of life