I just met my girl for the second time, had amazing time both times meeting her. We have a LDR and it has been extremely tough for both of us. We’ve both have to forgive, compromise and communicate with care, we’ve both shown up for each other when it counts and see eye to eye short and long term - I’m just not sure what love means to her, does she really love me? Sometimes I don’t know if I’m just the best option she has at the moment and if she’s really so cold as to bounce given the opportunity. She’s really my dream girl and though I’m not the richest man in the world, together we have a chance to build something pretty rare Anyone in a relationship wish you well 🫀
Does my girlfriend LOVE me or is she addicted to that LIFE?
I feel what you're going through. I feel the same with the man I'm currently in a relationship with. We're in an LDR too. The next time she tells you over the call or in person "I love you" or "love you" or calls you "my love", ask her, "I'm just curious, what does love mean to you?" . It is just a fun question and ask it with no expectations of what her answer might be. But like you said, you both are doing things, putting in the efforts equally, then I don't think there's anything for you to worry about. :)
In my case I don’t, the person who I was with longest (5 years or so) was older than me but a grade younger - it brings a lot of drama, better to get a woman your age. In my case i found my wife
