What to do if the girl you love hates you?

[depressed_dude]

I've known this girl for 5 years at least... And ever since I first met her l automatically liked her. And lately my attraction has grown into me loving her. But before she knew l loved her, she was my friend. She tells me who she likes and l never tell. I told my "friends" that l liked her and she said that it doest ruin our friendship. Then l made a mistake of asking her... out... She said no obvi. Then the person she likes found out that she likes him. She thought l told him... Which l didn't but it hurt me a lot. Help me?

[PrettyPriya]

It doesn't sound like she hates you. I am not getting that vibe at all. It just sounds like she didn't want to date and likes someone else. What makes you believe that she hates you?

She didn't find you as a suitable match for whatever reason. That is okay. Better not be in a fake relationship where someone is forcing themselves to like another person, right?

I think you need to let it go and just understand it was not meant to be. There are other girls out there that will likely find you their type and want to date you. To get hung up on one particular person is just going to bring you down.

The sooner you realize this and move on, the better. Try to take up some hobbies or get involved in some activity clubs. Keep yourself busy and don't go looking for love. It will find you one day when you least expect it.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Wait a second.. why the heck would you tell someone who is in competition for her affections that she liked him?
Go ahead and ask her THAT!

[jahaims]

You have lust and infatuation for her. You aren't in love. The obvious thing to do is move on.

[Guy13]

Move on to another

[In_Trance]

Move along