My girlfriend suddenly hates me?

[Anonymous]

I've talked to this girl in a long distance sort of thing for 6 months. At first I sort of liked her, but half way through she became obsessed. Good morning texts every day, would never leave me alone, and honestly I liked it!

We could not get along any better if we tried and were planning on meeting in the coming months (This is just the back story, not really much to do with the problem).

Recently she said she has some type of bump on her body and that she got the results back.

I said - Is it a tumor, she said no. Is it a cyst, she said no.

My dad's a doctor, and I asked about every possible thing it could be, I even asked him. There is literally nothing I did not ask.

She tells me this has her stressed out, but I'm beginning to believe she's doing it for attention.

Now, she is using this as an excuse to be edgy towards me.

Giving me short answers, SNAPPING when I ask simple things. I tell her how much I care about her, and while a month ago I'd get a paragraph back from her telling me how much she does too, now she just barley responds.

I wrote to her and told her how much I cared about her and she said "That's a little much". This was WAY WAY WAY out of character. And I said "Well gee, no I'm embarrassed".

Guess what the response was...

"Don't worry about it, man".

Should I just move on?

This is the first time in my life where I can actually say that in a relationship I did not fuck up. I did not cause trouble or drama. Within' a week she changed from loving to careless, and claims it's because of this mystery medical problem...

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Also, I gave her a break and went away for a few days and when I came back she was even more upset. She tells me she loves talking to me and that I make her happy, but recently has just wanted nothing to do with me.

[AnonymousSky]

I think she is really sick, considering the fact that she 'was' obsessed with you. She might tried to push you away because the result was really bad. Also, if she wasn't sick and pushed you away, why was she upset? I think most probably while at first she might really want to have nothing to do with you, after, she might think it was so easy for you to give up on her while in fact she wants you to fight for her and so she became upset. You know, fighting for her would be an indicator that you'll stay with her no matter what and if she is really sick, she need that.

P. S: try confront her, you both really need to talk. Call her or better, visit her.

[PinkAcid]

id feel the same way if a boyfriend started acting differently so quickly, you're right youve done nothing wrong in this relationship. The only thing i can think of is that its attention seeking and self pity to get you to cling to her harder and she's denying possible things the bump could be because she hasn't made one up yet or its something serious and she doesn't want to scare you or let you stay in a relationship with a seriously sick person.

try and get her to open up about the medical condition, if she won't then move on you tried your best

[Anonymous]

She sounds very emotional and a bit clingy.

Maybe she is really sick, and got depressed after she got the results, she tries to push you away because of that? Or some other reason?

[Nuns_in_Heat]

Wow, sorry bro...
I'd be just as conflicted as you. My logical side says yeah move on. But my hopeless romantic side says try and work it out.

Try confronting her about it. Don't be rude keep being the way you've been since you guys met. Just tell her you feel like she doesn't feel the same anymore and if there's any truth to that?